Tuesday, February 25, 2014

 

33. LEAVING IT ALL AGAIN - Book Three

LEAVING IT ALL AGAIN  Book Three


82. I began writing at an early age, I mean early, like age 10. It took. But I never really became a writer until just recently  -  well, a decade or two, a few years back. That happened after a long while, and a long while after I became, as well, a 'reader'. You can't be a writer without being a reader. I don't mean one of those chumps or chumpettes who are all over the place with their poems and stories of the beleaguered broken heart, the self-centered and self-absorbed centurion of their own hurts and feelings, dealing with nothing but their angst and tears and pain. Loves lost. The result and struggle of fearsome hot sex, grim irony under the delicious covers, hurt, pain, loss,  abandonment, and all that. That's all bullshit; it's emotion recollected emotionally and with, as it were, all the pangs of a young girl's pining and broken heart. Men writing as girls would write. Girls being girls with wet eyes. Or writing about snows and bluebirds, slings and happiness, songs and the singing of songs. I mean, instead a 'writer' and a 'reader' of a centered and deepened intelligence  -  replete with referential whisperings and the allusion of other things of, oftentimes, far greater worth. A pulling from the past, of ideas and feelings and activities and happenings. Seen in reflection, newly put. This is  -  what I'm speaking of here  -  material that never stands alone, so to speak. Each word and sentence, every premise draws along with itself the referential broader picture, the endless, by which so many things are connected. You, in that sense, can't really just 'stake out' new territory and call it your own. ('That's not writing, that's typing', as Truman Capote once indecorously put it in a really negative reference to Kerouac). That's what makes a writer, and you cannot attain that without first being a reader. They both take a long time and a lot of reflection along the way. Reading, of course is one thing; real reading is another thing entire.

Most of  -  or much of anyway  -  the 'Reading' industry, the publishing field, has been turned to slander and pulp. Junk volumes, made up to sell  -  smarmy, artificial things, replete with all what's needed to titillate, entice, bring the reader in, and, alas, proclaim much of nothing. Hand in hand with the movie and entertainment industries, they move along. Again and again, and dangerously, I find myself saying this  -  but look over very carefully what you see, the names, the rankings of people and titles, the audacity of the very stink of the endeavor, and I truly believe, you'll see the root of the problem. And the root of the problem of much of our country, quite frankly, is the 'people' who make up this and other industries. Historically, and now. That's all I'm allowed to say, because   -  yes, they own the issue and control the narrative on that one.

'I like to look at people's faces when they are waiting. Things we used to wait for : the news, mercury in a thermometer to rise, letters from overseas, boats to come in from whaling expeditions,  the fifth act, the fifth course, a phone to ring, a tape to rewind. And if waiting is lost, then with it are all the unconscious processes that take place during waiting to get lost. And then we might see the death of the unconscious and the death of culture?' Yes! And I say, 'Luxury is nice, but creativity is nicer.' I'm not sure anymore who wrote that first quote, or the what or the who of what they were referring, but I always liked it  -  'the things we used to wait for.' Really nice.

Most men of assumptions speak first, think only later. It's not as difficult to stop that habit as it may seem. Yet, in fact it's easier for the herd, at most a moment's displeasure, to just keep it rolling along. I have tried in a million ways to go over and over the things of all my days, and what's left is a startling mass of moments  -  things piled up which only now I sift through and find many of those 'assumptions' which went with them still fighting to get out. But I've overcome a lot of that  -  believe me, truly overcome. As I turn my mind inward it seems that each particularity of what I'd been brought up with had been false or at least false to the effect that it first demanded the adoption of false premises by which it was undergirded. And none of that has ever stopped, only gotten worse. Because of it, I have a million enemies, demons, spectres which still haunt. I admit to that  -  but I also own up to the fact that my own life has been a constant re-alignment of these things. All the usual psychological components of clinical behavior, perhaps, but one of those people, I'm not (psychology types [see 'How I Began Writing Drama']). I was brought up  -  rather distastefully  -  in a home  with an atmosphere where there was not much of anything except sentiment. It was an 'Italian Catholic' mileau, if those nettlesome words need be applied. But it was way more than that. It was two people (my parents) yet embroiled in their own overwhelming adventures and personal almost horrific scenes, trying to get through all of that but having to ignore most of the 'real' aspects of that as they pressed in. There was never any self-reflection or rejection  -  they bought into and went along with all of what they'd been somehow presented with as the right way and the correct route. There are millions of ways to interpret a rejectionist's life. They had both been rejected, for sure. A rejectionist is someone trying to fight their way out of the middle of vast confusion, but having or allowing no other means to do so except by reaction. They sought after no learning, they delved after no deeper threads. They accepted the life they'd been handed as being of a part and parcel with 'tradition'  -  a tradition of racial characteristics, old European geography. They considered it all valid. What a 'rejectionist' never realizes is that the 'society' they're so set after achieving does not want them  -  spews them out like dirt, in turn only rejects them again  -  messes with their heads, takes their money hand over foot, breaks up their time with rules and regulations, sessions of this and that, calendar blocks of time, scheduled plans, boilerplats formats of social and political belief; all while convincing them that this is not so. They are always confused, not knowing where to turn. Not realizing there is nowhere to turn except within. And within equals the Kierkegaardian sense of dread and fury and might : the decisiveness of singularity. Singularity must be achieved first, ahead of and before anything else  - because it invalidates any and all of the previous characteristics I've just mentioned, which are merely thr characteristics of control and duplicitous autocracy. A Dictatorship of the Ridiculous Folly. Politics is certainly not the answer  -  though those who profit from politics try with all their might to drag you in and think that it is. Consumerism is not the answer  -  that's more control and more uselessness. Having a good time, being entertained, is not the answer  -  though that's  mostly all of what's thrown at you : inanity, idiocy, stupidity, race, sex, perversion, acceptance. You are given no choice except the societal choice of going along. My parents, helpless as they were  -  nay, primitive as they were  -  were more like cave-people in a diorama within some deep and dank museum somewhere, wondering what that distant thing called 'fire' was that they'd glimpsed; still painting their own frail pictures on dark cave walls, they were yet set adrift, lost and functioning slightly on the tundra and the plains and steppes of a brave now world, to them. But, like so, so many others, even today, they never made the leap, found the manner by which to surpass, to best and overcome, all that was holding them down. The one, vast myth of empowerment and overcoming, which was presented to them and which they readily accepted, was more control and regulation and stipulation in the mega-guise of 'Religion'. The bifurcation of their lives had been broken down into two absolutes  -  the sacred or the profane, the secular and the religious  -  as if there was to be any difference at all. They bought into all of this, each delicious but foul and poisonsous morsel. Somewhere in the midst of this, came I. It's been said in magical circles that we only know a minute portion of reality, that we are greater and grander than anything we can imagine, and the we 'choose' our family and situation for the psychic-adventure values they will bring  -  all known about beforehand, all readied for, and all accepted previously. No undue surprises, just what I've always termed, in my years of writing, 'Lesson Learning Catching Up With Itself.' That's worked for me. Perhaps then, if we choose it, I had chosen this thin branch on which to try to stand. Who knows? And I'll never know, because it's part and parcel of the doing, the not-knowing. I came, I somehow survived, and I got here. All of my steps were put before me  -  of which you've been reading some here. Infancy as a blur, a muddle, a story-line repeated back to me. I know nothing of it. Whatever small, internalized memories I may have of things, start well after that  -  the scrapbooked reality of infancy and toddler years somehow muddied or yet blurred, if ever there at all. Maybe waiting to pounce back at me and all recur in those famed 'reviews' of the last moments of Life  -  on the way out, a distant movie for the final flight. 

Language becomes the gift that never stops giving, though devilish as it is it can destroy as well. In my parents' household, in Avenel, in fact, language was a stepchild of nothing at all. No care was taken, nor given, to words, nor to the structure of things to which words can lead  -  the articulation of ideas and internality, the revocation of the 'rejectionism' fabric so easily accepted. My house, the place in which I was raised, only had language as utility and message  -  the to-do's and when's and how's of things. Many people commented upon my father's brawn, his muscularity  -  back then  -  and how he got things done; throwing spadefuls of dirt around, cutting wood, building things, altering the 'scape, as it were. That was, for his time, his own communion with the world  -  though unknown to him. His physicality was his response somehow to the void. The nagging void of the absence of language. There was nothing finer than base. Hammers, saws, dirt, chisels, concrete and lumber. It was all of one contingent. When he was up against the opposite of that  -  as I mentioned long ago  -  those neighbors who walked home from the trains, with their overcoats and briefcases and tophats (few those these neighbors were) he harbored anxiety, professed a hatred, swore off them and their effete ways. It was instant, the response didn't even take a minute to boil before brimming over. I always thought of it as his reaction to language, or against language.  Stupid on my part, yes, but as a ten year old, or whatever, what else was I to condition my response as? He wanted me to be like him? In his revolt and festering anger at the scenes around him, he sought to duplicate me into another version of himself  -  shouting down or belaboring points of distinction between 'world' and 'theory'. To him, the world was this harsh terrain he dealt in. 

To him, the 'others' represented theory  -  those who did not dig and cut and struggle and fight. You may not understand or agree with what I'm stating here, but through the eyes of 'me', the representative atom in this quest of self, that's what it always appeared as. To fight back, my father would build  -  massively overbuilt things, yes, but he built. Piles of lumber turned into cornices and shevles and alcoves. Sheds and doorways. Cellar entrances and overhangs and eaves and shelters. Fences. In somewhat a fury, he built single-handidly back-room extensions, six-room attics, complete hallways and cedar closets. It just went on. He simply translated the world into 'things'. I was speechless, mostly, never knowing what to say  -  certainly not to offer an object-lesson in alternatives. By age eleven or twelve, there was no real alternaitve for me but to leave. I had to get out of the stifling atmosphere into which I'd been placed, showing no alternatives, allowing nothing else. I did not want that form of life.  Simply knew I did not. My reality I'd already encrypted, and it included (already, early on) words and books and booklets and information and writing, colors and forms, finesse and gradation. I was up against a solid wall, totally, and I knew it. A writer named Mary Jo Bank put it like this once : 'It's like sleep if sleep were a film that didn't include you, but no, whatever is happening, you are always in it, the indispensible point of view.'


I think it all has to do with what you care to believe; from top to bottom, that's the essential point. It just goes on from there. Here's a for-instance in, even, the present day : deep Autumn, ten million morons, in the name of their 'ecology' awareness and drive, raking leaves, endlessly blowing them, noisily piling them with enormous leaf-blowers, hiring endless landscape companies with marginal employees slaving away to keep yards cleared and looking perfectly serene. It's a mad-person's paradise, of course, totally off the wall, and un-natural as all get out. The leaves are meant to fall, decompose, become the composted and enriched soil for the future,  the loam of Nature's own love. Yet, having been propogandized into believing they only do what they must do  -  these people expend more energy, at every level, in order to 'supposedly' reach their end-results of a clean ecology  -  it's asinine. Leaf bags, replete with company names printed on them, corporate monster hardware names and not, are left at curbside for  municipal pick-up. The leaf bags themselves are an entire other industry, complete with the processes of the printing and gluing which goes on to make them  -  an industry which uses endless resources, mechanical and fuel, transport trucks, distribution, etc. Then the municipal trucks and fuel, and wages, which go into the pick-up and  drop-off collection places. The endless fuel and travel exploits of the huge landscape trucks, the noise and energy use of the mechanical blowers  -  etc., etc. I'll stop there. Suffice it to say, without even a thought, this endeavor is everywhere undertaken in the name of 'ecology' and 'green' recycling, etc., etc. No one thinks. They all accept, and just go on about their merry, stinking ways. It's all a belief system adopted, and never thought about again. People have been 'told' what to do and, knowingly or not, just accept that. There is no reason for them to allow themselves to be convinced of things, be turned into consumers, buy premises of falsehood lock, stock, and barrel (a good, old firearms reference), get suckered into believing that  -  through media assault  -  they'd be salvaging and promoting the environment by enlisting themselves into the mass-effort of gobbling up resources to do so. Completely senseless, but no one thinks. And somewhere, some chucklehead corporate type is taking it all to the bank, and then re-using (the real recycling factor) those funds to promote more waste and destruction, all the while talking the other case.


Mankind, or humankind, was made, was seeded here, as a slave-race. It's never really risen above that. In order to keep that image of liberation and breakaway in check, the usual myths of Being and Life have been pounded into people's heads so as to keep them in place; by kinder means, by different words. The story of The Fall, and all the rest of that -  it was all invented and promulgated by scribes  -  those who once first controlled the language and the recording of same. We've just then gone about our business; assuming, amassing, acquiescing, going along. The 'Gods' in issue here have long ago left us, abandoned this planet and place as the mining efforts of the slave race of ape-men created was no longer necessary. They were done, and their needs of having and using us were done as well. A little tinkering, a few adjustments, and a number of steps up, Humankind was pushed to advance by steps, throiugh strages, Cro-Magnon, Neandrathal, Australeus, etc., into the 'reasoning' creature we are assumed to be today  -  a long, wearying process, filled with deat, drama, deceit and debacle. And some good things too. You can figure that stuff our for yourselves.


81. It's funny how the mind remembers things. Later on, far past the time, I suddenly find myself remembering things, of no real import, from youth. The stuff I did yesterday, still and quite vivid, is always there, but this other material seems to float up, through some chinks or cracks in the armor, and resurface all these years later without any real control by me over or upon it. I don't feel compromised by this, it just makes me quite curious  -  what's going on, what's underway. My own theory (unfortunately) is that while the mind slowly deconstructs itself, begins falling slowly apart, it fragments things, sets them loose, and they somehow filter up and out, or whatever directional imperative the mind uses. One of the fine uses of being a writer, after many years and much intent practicing of the craft  -  prose, poetry, stories, memoirs, what have you, even drawing captions  -  is that these can be savored, examined, listened to and used and re-crafted. It's only the idiot who loses it altogether, the babbling old-timer with abstracted and loose memories swiftly blasting off into the ether. What is this life anyway, perhaps, but an unconscious mixing of all these blasted-off pieces of other people's life re-made into the contortions we them find ourselves dealing with  -  the meanings and definitions of our everyday existences. I don't know. I actually don't think it is so, but so what? My own memories  -  a different category  -  I accept and deal with. Luis Aparicio, I believe of the Baltimore Orioles, about 1958, and another Aparicio, a brother, maybe a Ken, somewhere else, playing. The two Boyer brothers; Ken, a third baseman of renown for the NYYankees in that same period, right up to the 60's, early, and his brother too, Ken, playing somewhere else. Minnie Minosa, Moose Skowren, Lew Burdette, of the Pittsurgh Pirates, I think. A vicious World Series sometime back about then too, Pirates and Yankees, '58, again I don't know, where many of these names clashed. Some sort of epic baseball battle. Red Shoendienst, Ted Klazewski and Don Clendenon. Like a baseball card hall of fame, or a gum-flat assortment of names and ideas, all this sticks around. I don't know why. Names linger. Not just baseball either. Bernard Baruch, Adlai Stevenson, dying on the street in London, I think; Robert Lowell, dying in a taxicab, I think. Hemingway, blowing his brains out. Christine Keeler, some British sex scandal, John Profumo. It's a riot. It's upon everything  -  my own life a wild, blown-out assortment of abstracted names and beings seen only by a child, but somehow absorbed. Marianne Moore at her endless Mets games. I could go on; but I'll simply stop myself right here. I'm sure you too have your own lists. It's like, as a youngster sick in my parent's bed and home from school for some days, I'd drag down the huge family bible, all those glossy and idealized pictures and stories, and get to portions of Genesis and other places which were nothing but lists and lists of names and begots and begats. I never understood that stuff; wanted to jump and run. But I can see the precise, infantilism involved just as much as not. A determination to make valid the claims and lineages of the people within the story the narrative of which you were trying to control. One has to show complete and exact mastery of name and place and subject in order to make convincing twaddle instead of just twaddle. I read once where novelists, it was said, go through old graveyards finding names for their characters. Maybe that's true, there are some good ones and some ordinary ones too  -  but mostly they are, in fact, pretty dated. I can't remember the last 'modern' book I read with a character named, say, Jedediah, though there is Jedediah Purdy to reckon with, even if he's not a 'character'. Maybe a run through old baseball rosters would work just as well. Except for the weird nicknames, things like Pee Wee and Speedy and Gopher and Lick.

I always sort of lived my life outside of definitions, and I never knew why. It wasn't the sort of thing I could put my finger on. When people died, I never missed them. I could never get involved with people's illnesses or sorrows. Just didn't matter to me, wasn't real, had no 'necessity'. As a youngster I could blow all that off, run  right by it; but later on as I grew older I started wondering about it, why it as so. I may have mentioned already  -  I actually do forget  -  by one time I somehow managed to say something to my father like 'all the good people are dead', or something like that. He'd asked who it was that I had regard for, or something. He couldn't figure that out at all, but he too just let it go. What I meant to say was that it seemed to me that any people of real import  -  the ones with the 'ideas' and things by which we'd built society, had already all long ago died. He sort of took it as an affront to those living, as if I was beholden to them, I was duty-bound to respect and select someone from among the living with whom to gauge the bywords of my time. He always took everything wrong, and got offended by everything, or so it seemed. And maybe, just as well, I always said everything wrong. Anyway, I hated the world and just wanted to run and hide  -  which is sort of how I ended up in the seminary.

When I got there, everything seemed different. It seemed sacred and holy, secretive and quiet, reserved and reclusive. It seemed, at the least, to be a place which allowed and expected an interior life and gave over long periods of time for which to have that happen. I'd never seen that anywhere else. All the other fictive stuff of which we were supposed to believe and fall all over ourselves with, that was okay, doing all that was easy enough and passable. It was a trade-off that never bothered me. I'd never seen anyplace else that didn;'t mind if you went inside, way inside. It was like a philosophy book always open  -  no one knew what I was ever 'really' thinking; they all just figured I was within the program and thinking all that crap through. Fact was, I couldn't have cared less for all that rosary and Holy Mary and sacred heart and Jesus the Savior stuff. They were always going on about something  -  downright pitiful and stupid mostly  -  but I could just let it roll through me without too big a fuss. And it wasn't even that I was thinking of girls  -  that wasn't so difficult to forget about, even though I did think about them, in a simple way. What can you expect when this place was way out in the sand-woods of a faraway pineland and there'd be girls' underwears and bras and stuff hanging from trees, as I did already mention, signifying some local boy's Saturday night car-conquest of some girl's virtue. The rules of the boy's clubs were that you hung her panties on a branch of the tree where you'd had her. Weird, frightful custom, but, whatever. I guess some girls just brought spares since they already knew this stuff was going to happen. We track-team runners and meditative walkers and wanderers through the woods, or at least me, had a hard enough time figuring out the 'virgin' in Virgin Mary, and then that difficulty was compounded by these spectacles defaming all our ideas of what was really 'Life' and its Godly happenings. What a bungle it all was. And then, to make it worse, we'd have to learn about the 'Passion' of Christ and recite 'ejaculations'  -  what the hell? What was a kid to do?
It soon enough worked it's way through. They'd figure I was dwelling on Christ or something and I'd be going over in my head the most recent something else I'd read (thank God for their library, ironically)  -  The Crucible, by Arthur Miller, comes to mind. I'd be balancing Salem Witch Trial stuff with what was supposed to be the 'Good' parsons and religious folk of that time, the saintful twist of American history and all the weirdnesses just seeping out its pores. It was all different than Doctrine and the professed catholic believes put forth around me  -  it was erratic, and extreme. Just like I wished to be. The story lines never matched the pabulum which was made of them for mass consumption  -  Sunday magazine crap about America's unblemished rightness. It was mostly apparent to anyone who looked how wrong it all was and how bad it was going. Once the first crack shows up in the belief-wall, it sure enough begins spreading quickly and widely. This country had never been straight and placid and logical. These people, those before us, they stank and were mean and ugly and shot and killed for principle. They faced nasty hardship and unbound toil and sorrow. Nothing of which  -  and I mean nothing  -  the modern, 1960's fool American could do or withstand or put up with. There was some real nasty shit back then  -  the goings-on were pitifully snaky and shrewd, tough, angular, nasty, coarse. The material which was being peddled, by contrast, was mass-consumption bullshit pushed by huge corporate power-staffs and idiotic politicians and control-freaks and school boards and company heads to conceal their takeovers and manipulations of society  -  for the benefit of profit, gain, and their own exalted money and status. Stockholders. Military machines. God-awful stuff everywhere, and it was all then just beginning. By the time of Kennedy's open-car assassination it was, for all practical purposes, already gone. Over, and done with too. All that was left to us was aftermath. (I was stunned, a few years later when, of all things, the Rolling Stones titled one of their 60's era record albums 'Aftermath').

As you leave New Jersey, at the bottom of the New Jersey Turnpike  -  the 'seemingly lawless' NJ Turnpike, where 85mph is pretty much a norm  -  a sign greets drivers just after exiting : 'You Have Left the NJ Turnpike, Obey Local traffic Laws'. On the Turnpike, one of the more interesting aspects of a supposedly 'democratic' society: nullification. When enough people decide that a law (like a speed limit) doesn't jibe with the way they want to live, they collectively ignore it. A federal judge is reported to have once said that the great risk of  bringing moonshiners to trial in his district was jury nullification. ('The burden of proof may be met, a crime clearly committed,, but the members of the jury will exercise their right to disregard that law and acquit the defendant regardless, because they just don't care.'). It's something like that with ideas  -  or it was for me. I nullified any of them I wished, or even any part of them. As soon as I realized that what was being peddled to me, taught to me, professed in 'truth' as such, was mostly bunko, mostly just a means of keeping  -  in this case me  -  in control, under duress, and 'in stir', as it's put, I ditched it. I nullified all that was around me. Imagine a 16-year old kid doing that! It was dangerous, lonesome and stark. It almost drove me mad. School was prison, and I was just completing a 12-year sentence, done cruelly and insensitively, to me. Nullification could be a great thing  -  I'd like to nullify plenty of stuff : the church, the IRS, the American bullshit system, big government, little government, big corporations, little corporations, anything grouped for the pursuit of money, live people and dead people too. Hell, nullification is a great thing. I'd like to nullify hundreds of things, as I said  -  the military, the IRS, small-time thinking, big corporations, little corporations, any groups put together in the pursuit of money, education, schooling, the rational way of thinking, churches, police, coercion  -  but that's all enough of that. How much more simple it all would be if that were so, if the individual had the power of one, so to speak. There are, of course, entire schools of self-help and new thought which proclaim this stuff (yes, of course, for money and fees), which proclaim you can 'actualize' your dream and wishes into reality, producing wealth and fame and riches only if done according to their precepts and thought, helping you 'actualize' what you wish for. More vapid stuff I've never heard. I remember one time, at my Aunt Anna's once, with family members all in attendance  -  for some event or another (uncomfortable, creaky, rough, yes) my one-time brother-in-law was there, a creature by the name of Nick, having just done EST or something, or at least talking blowhard stuff about it. My Bertrand Russell fan aunt fell right into this stuff, going on and on about how wonderful 'transformation' was and the rest. I took the bait and started destroying verbally all that was around us. I asked my aunt to proof to me that that telephone on the table was really 'there'; that it even existed. Outlandish premise, outlandish challenge, yes, to be sure, and stupid, but I primly won the moment  -  which was all I really wished for. The conversation stopped, fell into a desultory morass. Reflections upon reality. No one thought to take that black phone and hit me over the head with it, throw it at me, to actualize what it was, its presence : three-dimensional hard object which could, by those terms, pretty much prove itself into existence, or at least into my own realization of its existence by the lump on my head or the stitches in my scalp. But no one did. Any approach to these sorts of ideas can only, eventually, turn mean. I still say nothing exists, and I'd defend that to the hilt, and most craftily too. (By the way, this was an old-style, 1970's land-line bulky, physical-object desk-top telephone, probably weighing in at about 5 or 6 pounds. You don't see much of them any more, years later now). Speaking of 'actualization', what is a liar anyway except someone who is intent on actualizing the lie they're peddling? It's pretty much the exact same thing  -   a really good liar has it all worked and framed out perfectly, that what he or she says, or puts forward as their proposition, the 'lie', so to speak, actually is, actually comes to be. Convincingly, the liar has already willed into actualization what he's said. There are so many interesting variations on this  -  and, as a writer, I've realized the guilt of it in many of the things I do. In order to 'write' convincingly, does one not have to, first, 'lie' convincingly, at least to oneself. In order to write about the stretched-out hobo I've seen on 14th Street I have to, by need, describe and explain a premise, a situation, portray a scene, etc. And it all needs be done in the most convincing, or nearly convincing manner, in order for the reader to ascribe some form of 'truth' to what I've written. Yes. But, not having been there, not having viewed that 'scene', it's essentially all a lie albeit one made up and filled in by me alone. So, carry it forth : all writers are liars. Posing that as a question, I'd say no. There are writers who cannot lie very well at all. It's called being a bad writer. I guess.
When I was young, I used to read most anything I could  -  I mean everything: product brochures, box labels, can and soup labels, Boy Scout handbooks, church flyers, newspapers, magazines  -  whatever I could find around me. I loved it. I'd walk a supermarket aisle, as I recall, just gazing at text and product, words and signs and displays. I remember one year (I was 7, by the year), walking along some food aisle and seeing the product line of relishes or mustards or something, for Heinz. Back then it was called, the company name, 'Heinz 57'  -  that was the actual company name they used. I guess they had 57 products or something. But, anyway, in seeing this, at that time, which was as I said 1957, I thought they changed that each year, so that there had been a Heinz 56 and would be a Heinz 58. Turned out I was wrong. Heinz 57 was their name. I don't know if they actually still use that or not. Another time, I remember when Kellogg's Special K was introduced, something around the same time, maybe 1958 or so, and some guy was waking along with another person, next to me, down the cereal aisle, and his attention was caught by the new product  -  he said to his companion  -  'Hey, look at this, something new, Kellogg's Big K.' He called it Big K, and, yes, the 'K' was a large, red 'K' that did jump out at you, visually. But he ignored the scripted word, in black, 'Special' in front of it. Calling it 'Big K' instead. that struck me as really odd. It's stayed with me all these years, both of these instances I've mentioned, the Heinz 57 and the Big K. What does that mean? Is there some inscripted, internal equilibrium of 'Language' that has me caught up? Am I different in this respect from other people. Is that part of an ingrained 'writer's gift', the evidences of which have driven and directed me to this very (late) day?


80. Catholics always give me the heebie-jeebies. I guess I just never understood what was supposed to be going on. Even from my own oddly-situated vantage point, it never made sense and makes much less sense now. Everything has been accelerated. Even, for instance, the 'path' to sainthood  -  a crock if there ever was one anyway  -  which path has now been grandly shortened to the extent that recent Popes of no real great standing except from their own side of the fence, so to speak, are pushed along, beatified and then sainted in matters of years, as if some weird pop-stardom has instead taken over. Forget the 'miracles' stipulation  - they can always manage to come up with some nitwit who claims a cure was effected by repeating that sainted person's name, mantra-like, or having been touched on a hair of the ear or something by the person who's touched a person who'd touched the Pope, or case worker, or missionary hoot, some extemporaneous Cumbaya Mama like Mother Theresa was supposed to be, or Padre Pio. It's all so nuts : stupid false, insincere, cheesy and fat-fake for sure. Just even the nomenclature here involved gets silly. 'Mother'. 'Padre'. Give me a break. I really don't know how any of these people believe any of this stuff. And I have tried  -  as you may have read here, a goodly portion of a certain party of my earlier life was taken up with all that pious sqeaming on and off about Salvation and deliverance and the Rules and Regulations of all the God tended to see as the correct and only way. Or something : go to find out it was all technical politics anchored in the 'Soul', without any real anchorage at all. My mother used to have these Padre Pio books hanging about during the 1990's  -  short, adoring bios, prayer sequences, the whole bit. He seemed like a Euro-midget to me, but she was in it hook, line and sinker. Very off-putting. In the same way I can recall my father  -  and my mother for that matter again  -  taking serious direction from otherwise inconsiderate things like the Knights of Columbus Newsletter, or the monthly newspaper of the local diocese, which was entitled 'The Monitor'  -  lists of proscribed movies Catholics should not be seeing, reviews instead of the otherwise bubbly and stupid shows, films and television to which 'Catholics' would be permitted and should be glad of. Even more ridiculous, to me, each time I read one, especially back in the '60's, were the squirming editorial addresses which The Monitor printed as essays or columns trying to speak to their flock about the strange societal uprisings taking place everywhere  -  actual commentary and reviews of rock-song lyrics, hippie behaviors, 'changes' in your child's demeanor, meanings  -  hidden and not so  -  behind occurrences. It was all so funny, all so lame, yet it went on. You could tell the nervousness and fear which was operating behind it all had more strength than did the reactions being purveyed. No one knew what to do or how to react to anything, and this mild, staid and stupid 'Catholic' newspaper attempted, most stupidly, to address its flock within the confines of a church-directed and catholicized purview  -  what they should think (which was non-thinking at all costs, just following orders instead) and what they should do in reaction. Masses had to be enlisted to combat this new anarchy. It was crazy. My parents' kitchen table was often littered with this stuff  -  little pamphlets, newsletters, newspapers  -  as I said  -  attempting to drive them through this storm. They themselves took no cognizance of anything outside of that. I don't know what they thought they could do, or how they'd attempt to run this festering dilemma through, but it went on. Catholics were increasingly stupid  -  and from that point on it just got worse and worse until, even today, in the midst of rubble, we are presented with the flip side of defensiveness. Celebratory Catholicism, which turns everything on its head, had smiling and joking Popes and homilies, hip church comedians, Saturday night masses, walking Sunday church strollers, people in vacation clothing, weird blue hats and yellow shorts, walking into their churches both defenseless and oblivious. It's pathetic stuff.
I don't know why anyone would anyway try to mix up their premise of religion with their premise of a social location in which to live. I didn't then. Like some Taliban effort today, it reeks of a hard-headed fierceness that in its turn can do nothing but cause bloodshed and trouble all around. The American Dream, by 1965 was fading anyway  -  it was still a premise, and - yes - it regained strength by the 90's - but it was always a sham. You know what the American Dream in essence was? It was Destruction. No matter now many times it was proclaimed as an idea of Freedom and Free Thought and Self-Reliance and all that, it never was. In order to succeed and have any validity, it needed to destroy  -  land, water, property, rights, choices, etc. It was pretty simple, and always seemed so to me. Yes  -  I saw clearly  -  that no one ever got it. It's Corporate Statism, and not much else. There's no real regard for 'individual personhood' within it. Here's what the American Dream amounts to : a person has an outdoor grill, a nice Weber, or something they're proud of. On that grill, they perfect what, to them, is an ideal concoction  -  a burger or a meatloaf or a way of serving a grilled meat with a sauce or covering. Something. They decide to 'market' this, since all their friends rave and tell them how grand it is, what a 'product' it would be. So, in incremental steps, they go about the procedures. Many, many hassles, yes, but all undertaken, all knowledgeably done (I've experienced the likes of this with people, machinery people, printing people. I only use the 'food' thing as the example) in the hopes of product placement, stores shelves, sales, and the rest. But, the real bugbear here is, always, how these entrepreneurial types, how they always end up talking of their hopes of selling out; how they hope to make a really big bundle, millions and millions, when Armour or Tyson or International Foods, buys them out. And, of course, yes, these big corporations do that  -  yes, that very process goes on; they buy up small competitors one after the other, they purchase for large sums the up and comers, the artisanal this or that, and do so in the expectation of either being able to co-opt that effort, sell that product under their own purview (compromised and blemished, yes) or, in extreme cases, just shutting it down or merging it indecorously into the mix with their other 'products.' It's all overlapping things, one option overtaking the next option until the bottom line and the quarterly corporate statements look right. To investors. Who demand a constant upward stream of revenue; which stream has to be met somehow, fabricated or manufactured if need be as needed. The original guy, he or she is happy  -  having walked away with their bundle, they no longer rightly care. The Corporation, if it's done right, can boast of having added this or that in their reports and mastheads and product lines. Devil may care, and the rest be damned. So then, the 'American' Dream becomes a concoction for personal lucre, at the expense of anything else  -  the Corporation, once it is involved bespeaks for itself (and is willingly granted) the rights to usurp property and purity, to whittle down quality, to lessen a product to the extent that 'profit' can be increased, to despoil land and water in so doing, to use trucking and transportation means to bring these products to where they must be brought, and to universally claim the right of pre-eminence over all else. Examine that, I ask you, and examine what the profit-motive then really is, what free-enterprise amounts to, and what the 'American' system has been rigged to for this all to advance. There's is nothing sacred at all about it  -  and to see any phony religion (they're all phony) tied into the equation of also standing for the State, for Success and gain and lucre and profit, is to understand immediately the sham that organized church/religion is  -  a secular deal composed of magic, mystification and the smoke and mirrors of credo, belief and mystery so as to continually bamboozle everyone into a status-quo of comatose adherence to Dogma. That's really all it is  -  a partnership with ideology, both working together to falsify a selected 'Reality' later presented as fixed being (and, just as well, being fixed).
In my mother's house, (my father's as well, but he didn't take a presiding stance in this local religion stuff) there abounded a minutiae of Piety. I myself, in the early seminary years, got involved in this  -  a miserable concoction of following religious precepts which had no real presence, just vague, community-oriented mutterings. Believe me, it was a bad feeling. Plastic, poorly ornate crucifixes on the walls. Pictures here and there of saints or personages important, with palm leaves from the previous Easter drooping over them, novena candles here and there, missals, holy cards, etc., etc. all about. It was perverse  -  as perverse in its way as was the thing that happened after I'd purchased my property in the 'countryside' of Pennsylvania later on (previously written of, that little Baptist church guy Wallace McKnight). Yes, in much the same way the occurrence I'm about to relate bears the same relationship, in its way, as the earlier household did to religion in its way. After the second or third trip out there, my father and mother decided to go 'country'. They purchased two or three big wall paintings  -  reproductions, already framed  -  of farmyard scenes, red barns, a mountain backdrop, a stream, a pump house, a horse, all that stuff. In addition to that, they managed to grab somehow an old wagon wheel from the area of the rear of our house (it had been left leaning on a tree) and, as well, a milk crate which no one wanted. These items, brought back into New Jersey, became at 116 Inman Avenue, the new decor attesting to the 'country' atmosphere of their design scheme. Early American, perhaps, it would be called. It was funny in its way  -  the painting, placed on bland, poor paneling, dark-tinted brown wood, looked needy. Out of context, of course, both the wagon wheel and the milk crate dairy can placed on the simple cinder-block/concrete stoop seemed meaningless and without all context to anything. Which they, of course, were. But, in fealty to 'something' to some strange 'ethos' in the imagined air  -  just like their religion  -  it all made sense and came together to close the open threads of narrative and storyline needed. They could fill in the blanks and make for themselves whatever necessary connections had to be. Just as it was done with their survival and salvation. The huge gaps in processed belief were able to be filled in and scanted. There was, precisely, nothing wrong; Nothing ! as long as one had Faith and believed. That's about all it ever came down to  -  and that's about all the world ever amounted to in their eyes and in the eyes of all their cohorts; the churchgoing mob analogous to swarms of rioters who'd maim and kill if the chance was given to overrun the infidel. It's always been like that. There is no false, and their is no real. There is no belief, and there is no non-belief. It's all carping at necessary enemies; changeable enemies  - which is why these sorts of 'crusades' never end.
I think all it takes in life is a certain removal, a detached kindness, a distancing, in order to be calm and centered. Essentially, that gives time for reflection and the poise of a thinking man. Which is what I was ever after, even from early on. Erasing the emotions, deleting all those horrid scenes, the misery, the angst, well it just had to be done. Oftentimes my home was a center for all that stuff  -  I never got it, understood little, and just wished to wash it all from me. I did so. Italian Catholicism carries with it all the stigma (thank God not stigmata too) of the intrepid fires of emotion  -  all that delirious screeching on, the preening, the wailing; like finding a sanctified meatball in the middle of a plate of pasta. Right away, they start up about something. That's all, really, this Catholic stuff was  -  not 'religion' not a 'Credo' of any real goodness; just stupid junk. How it ever got started like that, how it took off and spread and flourished all over European city-states and countries and then later to the missionary outposts and far-away places, I never understood. It was never what it purported to be  -  it was, in other ways, just another finger of the State-Powered hand that ran things. Pure stupidity. Pure capacious bullshit, everywhere -   and then they tried to bolster its continuation with mitred hats, Papal appeals, money crusades, lectures and stern admonishments, sermons about nothing. Whew! Not a piece of this had to do, ever, with 'God Consciousness'  -  which is and ever was a completely different thing than the brick-and-mortar church establishment crap. All those medieval meanderings, papal states, fights and furies; total gibberish. God laughs, if then that's the case. God laughs heartily in anger. God Consciousness is a different thing entire  -  no tithing, no rules, just a natural and steady infusion of light and consciousness into the human element pervading the shades of the reality we are seemingly presented with. It speaks. It talks and eases things; it bends and smooths. It's just there. Everything is going on at once  -  a million concurrent things into which this God-Grace stream of light is always flowing. It needs nothing else at all. It just is : a 'present' and a 'past' all jumbled together making a 'now' into which all these things constantly flow and are constantly changing and being changed by. There's really nothing stable, nothing fixed, np point onto which you can rest or prop up your foot. Flux and change, that's God. The idea of Doctrine and Church. That's not.
Anyway, reading the Gospels was always a conundrum for me. The church I was born into paid very little heed, very little at all, to the Old Testament  -  it claiming that all had been surpassed and finished, sealed and made final, by the New Testament, the coming of the Messiah, the Passion and the Resurrection. Sure, in the Mass there was a short spot near the beginning where a quick and simple reading of a passage from the Old Testament, with proper citation, fell in, but no homily, no indication of context or meaning, was ever given. Sermons and discourses never took place on Old Testament stuff  -  and only in the Gospels had the church craftily planted and disguised those reference which would be used and held to prove that 'Jesus' was the completion of all Prophecy, the fulfillment of many of the referenced citations pulled up from the Old. I knew that and figured most everyone else did too. But no one really cared : it wasn't that sort of religion  -  no zeal towards research or even a scholarly commentary in the Jewish fashion. It was all to be held as hit or miss. Again, no one ever paid any mind to this stuff  -  frankly, no one cared. It wasn't like the Middle Ages, where by saying 'the church I was born into' you were totally acceding to something quite specific  -  and a role for life. This was nothing. This was an American, materialistic culture which gave nothing put for the specifics of grace and consciouness except where it could be used to promote sales, lies, mis-representation, cheating, graft, corruption, and varied forms of usury. That's the kind of crud people lived with  -  they all wanted it and they all got it.
At the root, in light of what I've learned, people's behaviors in reference to their 'Religion' (the bespoken cause they live for, let's say) is a sham. They all end up wanting comfort and things. Comfort and things are the last items for which 'religion' has been put together. The 'Salvation' they seek is their own personal Salvation. Nothing to do with the rest of the world at all. Why isn't that just called pure selfishness, putrid skepticism, and absolutely no interest in their fellow Mankind? Why? Because it's all shibboleths. All crap, from one end of the wafer circle to the other. Just like a faulty idea of an Infinity, running back over onto itself anew. When I first moved to Avenel there was a perfectly serviceable, small, country-style brick church, set in a clutch of trees and a nice yard. It soon had to go. A new monstrosity was built, right next to it, and it was later torn down? Why? A burgeoning population which had ensued from the rapacious development of the area, and the rapacious greed of the developers. The stupid church preached population growth, unlimited procreation in the Christian manner. The result of all that is the result of what Avenel and environs had to deal with and become. A hole, a funnel into which lots of this new 'population' had to fall  -  of course, needing  -  again  -  that new church. So the 'parish' could prosper. Money and lucre raised up, the twin-headed beast of greed, in this case, church greed. Nothing was ever done with that money to alleviate anything at all except further growth and outreach. 'Peter's Pence' once a year, as well  -  a bundle of money collected and set aside to be sent to Rome, to the Vatican, to help support and defray all the tremendous costs of all the tremendous riches already there. The Pomp of the Pope. More stupidity. I don't know how these people think, or thought. It's all such a senseless, myopic, made-up pile of senseless doom. There's no avoiding. Senseless Doom and death. It would seem to me that  -  according to the dictates of even Biblical lore  -  the mission of Man, of Humankind, on this Earth was to have been the proper husbandry of the earth and its lands and resources and bounty and Lifeforms. Husbandry. Good Husbandry, as in marshalling the energy and impetus to take care of, and preserve, 'God's Kingdom.' Showing the broken end of the bargain, just look, LOOK I ask you, look, by contrast, at what Mankind has done.
Look then, anyway, at the big picture. What sense does it make to consider 'Religion', with all its tenets and proclamations, to be serving only the individual? It makes no sense at all. I had a brother-in-law who used to say I was the most 'haunted' person he'd ever known. He was probably right, I guess, so what. One of the things that most made me that way then, was this concept I just mentioned. No one ever seemed to grasp this; in my eyes they were all cheats and fakes and liars because of it. Perhaps that made me seem haunted, or at least made me what I was. A malcontent? Already bereaved and angered by that? You've got 'religion', in all its facets, that teaches Salvation, Deliverance, Comfort, Love, Brotherhood, Selflessness, and all the rest. What it's most intent upon, when it's brought right down to its essence, is that one, single  person's personal Salvation, personal path, to 'Heaven'. For his or her self. It all comes down to a big silence  -  don't let the secret out of the bag. 'We don't care about no one else.' All the doctrines and practices and tenets of 'Religion' (which is all a made-up scrum of ineptitude anyway, I advance) preach one thing  -  and even, with some audacity drag their own constructed God figure into the demands and enforcements of it, actually 'quoting' and proclaiming that God said this  -  and that one thing is a personal and individual Salvation. In turn, now, really, isn't that at odds entirely with the actual overall play of the church and the credo? Sensibly, following their logic, would it not be far better, and make more sense, to have a religion that proclaims that ONE person, doing it for his or her self, can then do it for all  -  that a personal Salvation would save the world and all its creations. That the essence of the religion would be that, at the 'conclusion' of this dedicated drama, the individual who had 'saved' his or her self would, as well, have saved it for everyone else and that even the sinners would be forgiven and entered into this Heaven? Would not that be more satisfying for the little game they've contrived and are playing? Wouldn't it not be more generous and giving, rather than having a game played one way all the way to the end, whereupon the rules are suddenly changed and only an 'elect' are allowed 'in' and the rest (suddenly) be uncharacteristically damned. FOREVER, no less. I mean, really 'forever'? What the fuck is forever anyway? Do they mean 'outside' of time, which is but a construct meant to bolster the edifice of all the rest of the fiction? There is, sorry, no Reality, and nothing actually exists. That which you put your hand upon is the illusion you've bought.
In foolish contrast to this was the world I was in : mothers and fathers dutiful and silent about their habits, their churchgoing and their beliefs. During my early years it was, at least, a different world, one made a bit strange by the fact that all of this was at least kept one step away, made special and strange  -  Dads and Moms dressed up for church, looked or tried to look successful, pleased and happy  -  business suits, hats, clothes and shoes. Nowadays it's all been dragged down to a foolish level of informality, making it even  worse  -  trying to make it colloquial. Shorts and sandals, old pants and comfortable clothes, as if the church stop was a moment on the way to the beach or to a party. No one gives a petty care to what they do, but they do it anyway. Seems to me that if one is going to go through with this sham it should at last be done with some serious intent and purpose. None of these idiots anyway get the ideology. Know not the history or progression of that which they are purporting to profess by their presence. And presence alone is what it is. Going through the motions...of something. The rest be damned.
It's mostly death, weddings, baptisms and that sort of thing to which people adhere for their church business anyway  -  it's disquiet, it's unease. In much the same way as it can be said that  the 'bigger' the wedding, the more spectacle attached, the more unease there is with the bride's, or at least her parents', idea of Sex. Their little daughter being taken. That still causes a lot of people a lot of pain  -  and the idea of spectacle supercedes the idea of 'happy-party to show our happiness'. No matter.
Much of religion is ethnic. Small-village stuff, old-world hill country. It's medievalism as such. It has no place in a 'modern' world, one which willingly comports itself in every way, shape and form in an opposition to any tenets of any religion  -  to the extent of murder and mayhem, killing and war, done in its name. Their ideas of the 'sacred' are laughable.

79. There's something going on. I have realized that I've never been more alive. Even though I've always followed the dictate of Marcus Aurelius who said 'Live life as if you were already dead.' Or I thought. Maybe it was from the memoirs of Hadrian, I don't remember. Maybe The Consolations of Philosophy, by Boethius. Now when I look for it all I see is it cited as an ancient 'Samurai' saying. Perhaps I got it from Yukio Mishima back in 1967  -  all that library scribbling. I don't know, but however wrongly attributed it's been bringing me magic of late. I look at people and I can actually see their self-excitement. It's very difficult for me to proclaim, but when I see someone I can sense their humanity, their satisfaction at being alive  -  even if, in the midst of all their other problems, it seeps woefully, to them. I can sense that girl's happiness and self-satisfaction with her nails, and her shoes, that day  -  her finesse about her toilette, her happiness at possessing grace and beauty. Or that man, with his stance and bearing, the shine of his well-done hair, his perfect business mien. Acumen. A Strength. None of those mean anything to me, but from each of those I feel it surging. It possesses a certain 'quiet', internal. It's Dignity, for sure  -  the same sort of holy dignity with which a dog licks its paws or cleans itself with its won tongue; or a cat does its own solid hygeine. Self-possessed, solid, sound. A complete Human possession of all matters. Last night's sex, this morning shower, the application of eye makeup, the selection of coat and hat, the wearing of that pencil and that lapel pocket. In point of fact, it's pretty much the only thing that allows me to forgive them for their stupid lives. I think, through all the ages, that's what people have meant by Grace and by Goodness; perhaps even by their quaint term 'God.' It's simply the knowledge of that self-possession. And I realize now that I have no place else to go. It's a possession of Self by being 'outside of self'.
It was never my intention to go scooting away, running or leaving things. It just came to be that, as I seemed to 'grow', Avenel seemed to diminish. Everything became a lie; there was no foundation there, no clutch, no grab. Walking through town at some evening hour, watching the closing of the sunlight breaking down the light, tingeing the windows and glassways with diminished light, the entire scene seemed tired and sad and small. I realized that it was only other places, the large, the dynamic, the strength-of-cities with all their heritages and pasts, that made the definitions and the shape-forms of the lives we lived. Avenel was manipulated  -  it was periphery. It was not to be for me.
Weirdly enough, now, it's somewhat turned about  -  subdivisions and new, large homes are bringing people, once again, out to these places and draining still again the 'cities' nearby of their better inhabitants, as it's put, and leaving repeatedly behind the big churn and turmoil that's left in cities, Manhattan to be sure, but others too  -  either the well-to-do or old-monied, the very top strivers, or the reckless low-level dwellers, those who just skirt by or are stuck there. It's very difficult to find the middle; and it's too bad. My own life was always distorted by the infraction of the lens which twisted the light  -  to put it oddly  -  into a fashion of rainbow hues, none of which had any way for me to cling to or grab at, for they were just that  -  hues, chimeras, illusions.
Some things were just always outlandish to me. I remember reading, when young, about the medievalists, or people in the medieval era anyway, who in their piety would make it a point to follow around a king or a royal or whatever nature, the higher the better, whenever one was within or passing by their area, their village or locale. The idea present then, and pushed as religious dictum, was to not miss the opportunity of praying in the presence of that Royal, wherever it was this person stopped to pray  -  a wayside church or cathedral, then for sure, enter in the throng with him  -  for any prayers sent to Heaven then were for more surer of being answered. The feeble thought behind this, of course, was that God hears better the prayers and supplications of Royal stock, whatever it may be. Entire structures of religiosity were built around this. It flabbergasted me. Just to have to realize the dumb subservience of the poor and the meek in these situations  -  fawning and following the hem and stride of a Royal just so as to be able to pray with them, in their presence, even if unknown or unseen, because God better hears their prayers. What kind of thinking was this? How could people live like this? And then, as I looked around myself and saw the local activities, family, friends, neighbors, etc., I did realize and have to admit that here, in this new situation, it just wasn't that far afield from what I just described. The poor had transformed themselves, somehow, into this newer class of freshly-arrived people moving into Avenel - to their little homes and streets  -  and nearby, never far  -  was the church. In my case St. Andrew's  -  old building or new. Mothers fawned over the local priests, the old ones and the new, young ones. Kids flocked, entire families trudged off to Sunday Mass. Some sort of automatic accolade of prayer and supplication, en masse, and closer to God only by being closer to his minions  -  in this case the priests and ministers who did this stuff (and in  their 'Royal' vestments too). Without fail and without question, money was given weekly, approval sought, public display played up  -  all so as to be seen being 'closer' to the Lord by being among the minions who prayed with His representatives. I guess all of this is still going on. Now I see families of Filipinos and Hispanics of all stripes dutifully doing their Sunday walks to church  -  parking cars, walking haphazardly in clothing fit for but a street fair; and white families too, all doing the same. The French used to say the more things change the more they stay the same. I guess that still stands. It's nothing ever that I can figure out; the logic of any of this escapes me. I don't understand what these people seek  -  what ostensible fulfillment to them could come from church-going and attendance. One can balance rationality against faith and find them both sadly blemished; but these people don't even take it that far. It's just, rather, for them, another version of blind servitude, never knowing what they're really doing, but just doing it anon.
Anyway, what was destiny and who had it? The little old Bond Bread man, with his silly Divco truck, trudging from house to house and talking up all those mothers and kids. Never seeing dads at all  -  what did he know, really, of the places he serviced? It was a fantastical life, a visitation, and his always having to be on, talking and more, was probably enough to drive him, or anyone, crazy  -  yet, a lot in life is a lot in life; you are where you are and you are what you've made. Here all the streets were new, and wide and mostly straight. There were no dangerous twists or alleys and churns where danger or thugs lurked. Everything was above-board and there really were no old stories. They were custom made, these streets, for the straight-line logic which would drive a bread delivery man to become a local confessor, one to confide in. he probably knew more about the happinesses and unhappinesses of all those families he served than anyone else around. People become what they are, without title. They did then anyway. Mike Cohen, this crazy-serious, Jewish, dark-suited guy who would walk around the blocks with his thick, black, breviary-like payment book, filled with little tear-off payment stubs for each of the subscribing families  -  he'd walk the local streets monthly, quarterly, whatever it was, to pick-up the life-insurance policy payments due. To my mother, he was sacrosanct, and for whatever reason the need to continue paying him was sacrosanct. His actual name was 'I. Mike Cohen', a mysterious name, always, to me, which turned to be Irving, hidden instead by the simple initial. Much like the bread-man  -  though the complete flip-side, personality-wise  -  he'd achieved a particular status all of his own making  -  no deeds, no documents needed. All these people were knee-deep in a weird sort of secular parochialism. A religion all its own.
Somewhere a long time ago I ran into a quote by the poet Frank O'Hara which always stayed with me. I took a comfort in it as I hated my pale and suburban life. I sought the attraction, verve and vibrancy  -  nay, the intellectual and philosophical firecrackers  -  that it portrayed and I took it as my own. I wanted to flee, just be gone. The quote went : 'I can't even enjoy a blade of grass unless I know there's a subway handy, or a record store or some other sign that people do not totally regret life.' I loved that quote. As I probably noted previously, I'd often walk out to the highway at the end of the street  -  Route One  -  and just watch the cars and the traffic go by: all those headlights heading north, straight into the maw of the Holland Tunnel, 17 miles off, give or take. I'd see the cars in the other direction, whizzing south. In both cases I'd wonder and watch  -  who were they, where were they off to, where had they been, what were their lives about, what was going on? My questions seemed to all come from my own fact of being stalled, in-place, stuck, in servitude to a ratty, foul 'tradition', growing stir-crazy and mad-wild about release. It was always there, and always unsaid. This was pretty much at the same spot where my father and I had walked  -  me as a young boy  -  trudging through new footsteps through the fierce snowstorm's aftermath as he and I too looked out at the highway, white and slick and bare of traffic at that moment. I knew what Frank O'Hara was getting, for sure, even in 1960. Funny thing too  -  because the distance down that highway wasn't really any 'visible' distance; you couldn't 'see' anything special, just a mile or two of roadway and cars patterning by, and the rest was imagines. Much like Life itself, I always figured : you peer down something, look into somewhere, get your ideas and assumptions lined up, masked or unmasked, and pretty much all the rest is imagined or surmised, based upon the assumptions you make. had I ever assumed that the roadway ahead of me ran, instead, directly to Vermont or wherever, then THAT would have been the paramount issue, the fruition of my desire. As it was, my endings were all endings of smoke : a place, a weird masterland of goofballs, beatnikism, crazed performers and artists, singers and shiners, all doing their things. It was the precise opposite of this I. Mike Cohen thing, which was, by comparison, a miserable straitjacket into which parents and elders had allowed themselves gleeful entwinings. They simply didn't know any better.
The way it comes done is that none of it has to matter  -  I cannot be the one to get stuck; it's against all my preachment. I've always thought anyway that I've achieved my own sort of 'State', my perfection, in my way. It hasn't been money and fame, starlight and glitz, but even dearer to me has it become a way of life itself with some weird form of acclamation through others. It all amounts to some sort of other kingdom for sure. Not of this earth anyway. You can't take it with you, especially if you've never had it and it's never been in this place with you. That's OK. I review, I review, and I think, I draw conclusions and from those conclusions build a continuance of all that which I want. Not of this world  -  or have I said that already?
The main key, I always thought, is to not be linear. Linear thinking is a square box into which everything has to fit  -  the form of the box is fixed and closed, and though the box itself is open, it's being closed at the same time comes from the fact that there are no new options for that which can or will go into it. Funny stuff. Linear thought is like tracking  -  your nose just goes in one direction and only follows a scent which it recognizes. Here's an old example that's always stayed with me. Back in May/June '67, those long, dreary days at the very end of high school  -  as a finished, ready to graduate kid there's not much to do for those final two or three weeks. You end up as a high school senior just sitting around, unless you're in the social whirl stuff, the autographs and messages and dances and proms and all that crap, well you sit around wasting time. The long, warm afternoons. And in doing so, an enforced idleness sets in. You're stuck with someone, and you just start talking, endlessly sometimes, day after day. Back in this time of 1967, the Beatles had just finished with their releasing of Strawberry Fields Forever and Penny Lane. I think each tune back the other on a 45, as I recall. Maybe not. Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts...was about to break but hadn't yet. It was a time of psychedelic breakthrough, a changing of all meanings and mores, people were running, they were confused, everything was breaking down (it's hard for today's folk to really understand what I mean; like the Roaring 20's bullshit was to me, I guess). Anyway, in a fortuitous turn of events, Penny Lane was perfect in this time and place. I had a oft-time friend, name actually right now I do forget, and I never saw him again in all my life after this school day, but I'll call him John. He was cool enough, I liked him, I liked the way he approached things, his mind seemed open, he was ready to listen and learn, hard or not as it were. The thing that happened here was almost perfect for me to realize the great divide, the way people think and how the mass of people simply are not equipped for the leaps needed to think creatively. This guy, John, was totally caught up in his linearity. We compared notes one afternoon, the entire school day in fact, on Penny Lane. We butted heads, talked it through, used it to bring us to other places and subjects. The problem was, he could only accept the song in one way and one way precisely  -  it had to be, and was, in his own mind, a linear, straight, progression of 'story' As in 'a guy walks into a barber shop, in the small town he's from, storefront along the main street. he plunks himself down in the barber chair. They talk about small town things, the fireman polishing his truck, events that occur, and then the fireman they'd just spoken of, rushes in, because there's a fire, alerting them, in a hurry, rushing back out, the pandemonium of the event ensues, etc., etc.' That was his take on the tune and the words of the tune  -  a related episodic event where things happened in a progression, a straight line, nothing existing without reason for being, in this story, useful, everything in place. I simply could not accept, nor believe his take on the song. We went back and forth and I kept hitting home the idea of how wrong he was, how much he was missing. 'It's not a story, things aren't 'happening'. It doesn't 'go' anywhere; get over that. It's an assemblage, an abstract of the moments of the life we live, each moment. The portrait of the Queen, the barber shaving another customer, the pretty nurse, selling poppies from a tray, who feels she's in a play and she is anyway, the fireman, rushing in, liking to keep his fore engine clean, it's a clean machine... These are just momentary and instantaneous fragments, illuminated moments that accumulate and amass. They don't need to 'go' anywhere.' I tried to convince him to get over the line of things that his closed mind was demanding  -  the idea that very thing has to go to something else, that stories must build, that things have to happen, without reflection, move along, as if they all had a life force of their own needing to produce a dynamic moment. He couldn't et it  -  and I'd bet if I saw him today, whoever he was and wherever he is, he's still lost amidst that same conundrum of looking for achieved results, looking for all those connected moments to 'make' something, and not just be. That's the peacefulness of Life, the Zen sort of article that just goes by us, the stream we must inhabit, the way our souls and spirits  -  eternal and infinite  -  must exist. We, ourselves, are just bad bumps. momentary diversions, on the Being that is. Well, anyway, that's what I took from those last few days of high school. Not that anyone there would teach me that. School and education by the established machine is a big, creepy lie run by the vilest people you could imagine.
'A Portrait of the Artist As a Young Man ends with a beginning'. I read that a long time ago, sort of when still stuck in Avenel. My addition to that (pretty obvious statement, I thought) was, so does 'The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn' and so does 'On the Road'  -  all that stuff and probably a hundred more. That was too easy a statement to make, especially for someone (Seamus Dunne) who'd been paid by Penguin to write an Introduction. But, at the same time, I also knew that the industry of the publishing world was like that  -  academics, scholastic types, working hard all the time at pulling new rabbits from the same old hats  -  or maybe even the same old rabbits from new hats. It's difficult to say something new, especially when made more difficult by the rigid standards of the established academy which  -  though it claims new thinking really doesn't accept any until too long after. The author's usually dead and gone, hopelessly finished after a life of destitution and labor to his or her task, and some nitwit looking for a break or a new subject or another spin on something already spun, decides to stake out a new claim on an author's Being  -  what this or that means, how such and such was influenced by, the 'idea' of property in Dickens', the 'new outlook of Modern alienation in...whomever' The industry gobbles this up -   so that the resultant stuff comes out like 'Portrait ends with a beginning.' Yeah well then, so it does, bravo. It also begins with an ending, if you'd be so kind as to flip your stupid premise. I'm being facetious, perhaps, but no more so than any of them. Some great industrialists may have made iron and steel empires. Publishing-world industrialists often try to make empires of word-shit, endless run-on premises of sentence after sentence. Often called 'Blather'. It's a trip; just like the trap I was in and from which I knew I had to get out. Endlessly pacing the streets with my ticket book to collect monthly payments. No thanks  -  even though that's pretty much what most of life is like anyway. My better image was of people staking out new places and new lands, a proposition of oneness and singularity that I shared...with how many others I'd not ever know. I felt like a Destiny was descended upon me, something I had to do, some way I had to do it. Being where I was (Avenel) was like being sequestered and just out of reach  -  a few, mere highway miles from the vast, internal; city wherein all the real; stuff happened. People in clumps, odd people, beatniks, wisenheimers, doers, single-stakers, artists, lovers, drawers, people of no regard for the rest of this crummy, make-another-day world of business and commerce. I they were there, just out of reach, and I knew it and I wanted so much to be there instead. The bond breadman could have his role of Avenel's town-crier. I wanted to be THEIR town crier, from deep within my soul. Alas, now, from here, this vantage that I write from much later, not much of this ever really did occur. I eventually got to where I wished to be, ate up the place, savored it, reveled in it, but the big mark somehow eluded me. I stayed with it, realized the location of myself with in, and just kept lugging my baggage around. It ended up Okay; not what I'd really wanted or wished for, but okay enough. My body of work is valid and  strong, and it's the result of all that  -  so I'm fine with it.

'The switch from the neuter third-person narrator, commanding a discourse that is dominated by quotation, repetition and carefully constructed rhythmical effects, to a first-person whose discourse is by comparison disjointed, careening from petty local detail to the declaration of his solemn ambition, is dislocating for the reader. Yes, for all his self-absorption, Stephen recognizes himself to be a member of a community; it is in relation to the collective, the race, that he formulates his individual aspiration and the techniques of individuation, although it is by a process of inversion that he achieves his ambition to be self-born.' That's from the introduction I mentioned. It's pretty interesting 1. as an observation and a point of view, because  -  in fact  -  it does happen, and 2. because  -  outside of the interested grad student working on a tome, or an over-sized academic seeking power  -  it's really not interesting at all as a point of observation except to the fact that  -  in the writing 'industry' it's the sort of stuff non-writers dote on. Like the endless line of dweeby, non-athletic Jews selling sports memorabilia and baseball cards at any of a thousand sports expo's  -  seeking as is usual to make their filthy lucre from the 'outside' of anything (if you can't 'do it' then by all means make money by doing commerce about it from the outside). If you can't do it, then talk about it  -  baseball or writing; no difference in the pocketbook.


78. One good indication of the how the world has changed, in these parts anyway, is the old fact  -  now long done away with  -  that there used to be places where gasoline stations actually had signs out that said things like 'Last Gas before Parkway', or 'Last Gas before interstate' or whatever -  in order to goad people into gassing up before that (imaginary) long stretch of untended highway came upon them. That's all been done away with and most every large convenience-store or discount house now also sells its own cheap version of named gasoline  -  everywhere and most anywhere, and no one really goes anywhere anymore anyway. Nothing's uncharted, to be sure. The twist and glimmer of older days' travel has long since disappeared and been subsumed into a funny mass of miscellany  -  fast-foods kid-kingdoms, playgrounds and clowns and buffoons and the obese (and all the wondering why obese), bargain-shopper membership clubs and the endless array of the punk-cheap and the tawdry. Walmarts and the rest belittering the Walgreens and the rest which belitter the Burger Kings and the rest  -  all somehow interconnected by a wiry rope of corporate poisoning which goes into each item to make it more saleable cheaper and with better return. Fat is the fat of the land now, and we live off that fat of that land. Robinson Crusoe where are you? Part of the appeal, going back once more, to Alan Cabal for that free-on-Mom driving around vacation frolic that he took in that crazy K-car was in the idea of such passage  -  him, a city-boy, an isolator, all of a sudden free and at-loose with a car to do with everyone else in those 'hinterlands' always had done  -  wastefully scribble around in wheels taking from the land whatever it was offering at whatever cost  -  beer, food, utensils, places, adventures, highways, roads and streets. Doing in his way whatever he thought the rabble did. (I remember once greeting some people with the words 'Now I get to be with the hoi polloi'  -  thinking hoi polloi meant high people. It doesn't. I was corrected, but found a way to quickly elide off the problem of grammar and make good amends.Iit actually means the rabble, the regulars, the mob. Could'a got myself killed!). That's where Alan was  -  cruising through the mid-Jersey dumps but thinking he was experiencing the real Jersey shore  -  which even I never experienced. Keansburg, NJ, let me say, is Nowhere Man personified. It has a 'history' of sorts, but the same kind of dead, once-upon-a-time-way-back-when history that a lot of these places have. When there were small fishermen cooperatives, little rows of clammers' huts, fish factories, boat launches and docking, shacks and waterfront sheds. All that stuff was a century ago and it's all gone now; even the Raritan Bay, which Keansburg faces  -  not even the ocean  -  is a ghost of itself, a pale relic of a waterway long ago useful and well-used. Now it's more just a gas-pod of either indecency or tanning oils and debris. There was a time  -  and oddly enough now you can still walk the varied municipal bay-front beaches thereabouts and see the markers in place, as if put there by municipal officials with a guilty conscience  -  when this was a coastal beehive of high energy. Before the nation had really spread its vainglorious industrial tentacles everywhere, this very busy coastal area, both sides of NYHarbor, here and points south and north, were covered with operational maritime enterprises  -  clamming, oysters, shellfish, lumber, agricultural items, cartage, brick-making, iron and steel, and well as a huge fishing and vacation industry. It's all gone now. Here and there, by surprise, one occasionally can see pieces of old piers and pilings jutting out of the water, or, in the case of the section of Staten Island across from Perth Amboy and Sewaren, an old boat graveyard, where the old wooden ships and boats were towed to languish, list, rot and fall away. It's all mostly gone now  -  waterfront development, expensive homes, parkland walkways and all that have replaced it all, and wanted to, by design, obliterate even the memory. Yet, as a young boy I can well remember, with my father in his 6 horsepower motor on the rear of a rowboat, boating the few slow miles out to there, looking at the pilings and ruined things, sloshing up on the Staten Island beachfronts, just to explore and traipse around. Pieces of boat, things sticking up out of water, skeletal remains of hulks and keels and all of that, at rakish angles and dangerously hidden submersions. I never really wanted it to, but somehow that stuff got into my head, and stayed there  -  memories and fixations of maritime stuff, sad and silly and dead, stayed in place to this day. When we first moved to Inman Ave., and I try well to remember this, my father's head was still in the mode of a seafaring kid, a young turk who'd run off, set out to lie about his age and join the Navy, during wartime. He did so, took his training, went to California and was shipped out to the South Pacific for the years it took for that part of the war. He was a gunnery mate on a battleship tender  -  which meant supply ship for the larger battleships  -  bringing them food, provisions, clothing, medicine, tools, books, toys, whatever was needed to keep a ship at sea going. His ship, in addition, would take flak in the doing of its job  -  it was well-equipped with guns and battlements. In addition, they'd pick up dead bodies from the other ships, and one of his jobs was to sew the bodies into canvas bags for burial at sea. That's a joyful task, especially in the midst of wartime, but at any time as well. He was, by 1954, not that far removed from all that in his head, and  -  as I well recall  -  he carried around with him the envisioning overall of being a seafaring guy. Avenel was at the coast, Sewaren, Perth Amboy, Raritan Bay, not that distant from the Kill Van Kull, the Atlantic Ocean and the real first-class maritime stuff. We spent half our time going back and forth to the Jersey Shore  -  all those rabid sea-coast towns, small time fisheries, fishing boats, boat rentals, day trips to the offshore bluffs and islands, days at the beach, etc. It was always boat this or boat that. After a while, even I got tired of the rap, but it went on. Fishing and crabbing, fishing and crabbing. It was all engrained into him, and he never shook it. I could sense, always, that to him being at home or being idle was like being land-locked, stuck on dirt, far from the ocean. He hated, just as well, back then anyway, the mountains and any idea of the lakes or freshwater stuff.That was then anyway  -  later in life he got over all that, began visiting the Catskills, mountains and lakes, even places like Colorado and the Rockies. I guess time and money mellowed him out, on that count anyway.
That old part of Staten Island was curious. I'm talking 1958 now  -  right across from Perth Amboy, which had a waterfront of its own, of sorts, and an active ferry service back and forth to Tottenville (a town, across, at Staten Island). We took it often enough, as I recall. But, adjacent to that, and over a little from it was this boat graveyard I've just written of. Like the Kill Van Kull at Bayonne (my father's other, more original haunt) where the waterway faced tugboat repair yards and tugboat junkyards  -  also with submerged hulks and odd-looking wrecks in and out of the water  -  this area was a quieter sluice of old activity, and everything was old, wooden boats and ships. It was very curious. These watercraft, of whatever vintage, must have been sitting in the water since the 1920's (this was in 1961, say) and 30's. Old boats, put out of service, waterlogged and listing, just left there to finish their rot. At shallow tide you'd see the stuff and be able to walk among the hulks  -  careful not to get pinched or splintered or cut by any of the pieces of this or that now exposed by the wood-rot. I used to just sit there  -  not much interested in anything else  -  and just stare into the wrecks. The water, the island behind me and the expanse of Perth Amboy and all those oil tanks and refinery things around me little mattered. The boats still carried some of their own arsenal of other days' sense and sight and sound. Smell. Scents. Of this and of that  -  I knew I was part alive in another realm, another place, doctoring somehow to an in-between land that owned me more than the land I was on had claim to. Wood is fanciful in its own way as it gets darkened and moss-covered or seaweed-covered or whatever. It takes on another appearance -  startling, deep-sea stuff, back from the depths of some watery subconscious which is somehow still alive in each of us. You know how they say the body is this or that percent water, a big number, I forget  -  well whatever that watery current is which yet flows within each of us can still resound a telling bell  -  like a lighthouse keeper pinging his gong for the passing, lonesome ships outside. That's what it felt like to me.
Going back to that section of Staten Island today, and even from the Perth Amboy side, everything has been changed. In the 1950's it was still possible to find shacks and cottages, small, ramshackle homes  -  of eccentrics and loners, but not solely  -  facing the old waterways. Aging sea men, home on land and waiting out there time (not that far away, into Staten Island, around the coastal rim was Sailor's Snug Harbor (of which more later) a vast and quirky rest home for retirement sailors). The coastline still was peppered with maritime atmosphere  -  ship berths and ship repair yards, tugboat yards, all sorts of tank repair and service facilities, oilmen, trucks, a sort of Fulton Street NYC in reverse  -  the tack and sail shops of Staten Island itself, instead of lower Manhattan. The houses they've built now  -  and the endless rows of condo units  -  have taken control of the area. It's as if the developers wished for no trace of the old but instead only the idea of the sea and the water  -  no reality, just the plume of image. These are ultra-modern, sprawling and up-to-date places, on old, old ground. No one speaks any longer of what's underneath it all  -  myriad layers of coastal Indian lore, dead colonials, dead seafarers, dead boats and ship. Too bad; at least when he could,my father brought me there, reaching blindly for the idea or theme of whatever he was he couldn't articulate. I think he was trying, in his way, to share or impart to me the deep feelings that came through him for stuff like this, for his displacement, his awkwardness in the more modern world of 'things'. My father was an emoter, a fiery, impulsive person who didn't quite understand why that had to be given up  -  almost blunt and tribal in his ways, he still possessed many of the attributes of older 'Man' on the move, stumbling across plains and oceans, man on the move, pushing forward in a blind energy  -  without words, or the craft of words. it all sounds strange, but to this day I understand his need. I understand, as well, what things e was trying to get across to me, in his wordless way. I listened, I nodded, accepted. That's why we'd return there, many more than once, in his ridiculous rowboat and small-displacement crazy-man's Evinrude outboard motor, precariously strapped onto the rowboat and madly dipping through ship lanes to get to these strange places. The 'open' sea these trips weren't (though we'd had them too), but riding the ship-lanes in a 6-horsepower rowboat was always a bit crazy.

77. One other thing to mention here  -  one of those days with Alan Cabal and Ruda or whatever her name was, one of the times we cruised the beaches, again at Sandy Hook  -  this time not the military field, not the officer's houses, not the abandoned fortifications or the fuck-palace ammunition bunkers, not the implanted, under-the-soil NIKE missile emplacements to defending the American sky, but instead a rat-commercial place much nearer to the entrance of the 'Hook'. It was a multi-level bar, booze outdoor deck and restaurant place  -  large, sprawling, usually crowded and busy  -  called the 'Seagull's Nest.' The owner's name was Ed Siegel, a man I knew well enough. He'd made a bunch of money off of us (me) from my having run a few motorcycle rallies which conveniently ended up at his place for the bike shows, the raffles and prizes, etc  -  thus keeping a crowded bar-deck of at least two or three hundred bikers busy with the ringing of his cash-registers, tips and flirting with his beach-babe waitresses and all that crap. He would always call me up, begging for another bike run, knowing full well that he'd prosper from the debauched drunkenness of whatever level of constituent I brought his way, two wheels or not. Ed was old then, about 73 or 75, and that was back in '96 or whenever. As the only concessionaire on all of Sandy Hook he'd made a fortune, gained some fame and notoriety, and was  a wealthy man. Short, small, cranky, gruff and even rough-looking, you'd never know his attainments. He looked like a pugilist. I always wondered how he could stand it all  -  hiring any number for Summer help kids and teens about whom he'd then have to constantly watch and worry over for pilferage, theft, giving away food and drink to friends and family, underage drinkers being served, laziness, sloppy habits, and all the usual problems of the possibilities of bad food, mishandled food, fights, brawls, arguments, tips, cash, stolen tips, stolen cash, money on the bar, wives and others' wives and husbands, drugs, violence, drunk drivers, accountability, record-keeping, ordering, having enough stuff always on hand, dealing with deliveries and supplies, opening and closing, days of operation, hours, and, lastly, the weather. A lot of accumulated stuff to eat up any man's dollar. People who start and run businesses, it seems to me, must sacrifice an awful lot for the gains they claim. I don't think they really ever honestly do the accounting. In Siegel's case, it was apparent he was immersed  -  and that immersion indubitably led to being immersed in money and its continued accumulation. One look at the guy and you'd understand : he had that 'look', the look of the leer of money, the man who, ever-faithful to his tribe, thinks nothing of accumulating, and then accumulating more, one banana at a time, one hot dog at a time, one old book at a time, one after one. After a while he'd bought buildings and had tenants, and was - in fact - an absentee landlord in parts of Jersey City where apartment buildings still came cheap; bad and unruly tenants, but cheap housing and money to be made, one dollar at a time. I once had a boss who kept on his wall a picture of a cow. Beneath it was the slogan 'Remember the Cow Story'. It somehow bolstered his idea of what he was doing  -  the story was, in some manner, that one cow plop after another cow plop, seemingly meaningless, small and incremental, if you stay at it at keep doing it, soon enough you'll have a real 'shitload' of cowplops (money). Fortunes made a dollar at a time  -  yes, you had to be there; evidently it's a businessman inside joke at Kiwanis Clubs and things of that nature. It takes patience and forbearance (and mostly a belief in your tribal God, as one of His chosen) to think that matters one hoot. No matter, the story here is thus : a complete afternoon and early evening of drink and talk and more drink, with Ed Siegel mostly at the bar most of the time, talking to Alan about absolutely everything  -  life, philosophy, wins, losses, the whole gamut  -  I look over there and I see Ed Siegel broken down, shattered, in tears  -  sobbing like a baby. The man had somehow, over the course of the afternoon with Alan, completely destroyed himself, telling secrets and experiences he'd never wanted to re-live. Alan Cabal had somehow gotten this out of him. Ed finally did go home; asked to be excused, apologized for what he'd done, and slobbered away in the company of one of his adult assistants. The way the tale went was this : Ed had been a concentration camp survivor, had the numbers on his arm to show, came to this country as a refugee with nothing, worked, and worked some more, eventually bringing himself up to the point of ownership, through some government deal, of this site-protected, sole-franchise for food and refreshment on Sandy Hook, in Gateway National Park. He'd made a fortune, from nothing, even after the rents and paybacks and percentages the host 'government' took for him to keep the franchise  -  no matter, he'd built a cool, clean beautiful piece of real estate right there, the Seagull's Nest. In order to help his family along, do something with his money, he'd begun buying buildings in depressed areas. In  order to advance his son along the way  -  once reaching adulthood and family and all that  -  he'd made him the Superintendent/Landlord of a few of these holdings. All was going well, in this rags-to-riches story until the day his son, out collecting some back rents, was killed, shot in the head by a recalcitrant tenant not wishing to pay. Ed Siegel, in re-telling this story, in spilling his guts about this horrid, pent-up emotion, and everything connected with it, had let forth a gusher of fury, regret, sadness and emotion that was unstoppable, He felt HE had killed his own son. It was an amazing scene. I went over to Alan and simply said 'What the fuck have you done? What's going on?' Alan, drunk and high as an ever-skunk, claimed a certain bemused detachment, claimed not to have known what happened, but told the story completely well, with no regrets. That part of the experience, by the way, never entered his news story, and that was the really last I saw of him and Ruda. I did see Ed Siegel once or twice after that, over time  -  he mumbled something the very next time about regretting what had occurred, I played dumb enough, and that was it. This has stayed with me a long time  -  I think of it often. The Seagull's Nest, by the way, was destroyed in Hurricane Sandy, about 2012 or whenever, and Ed has not been able to re-open or rebuild it, though, at 90 or whatever he is still willing. His last phone message to me was that  -  all of sudden now  -  'people' have arisen who oppose his again re-opening the sole concession, without a bidding contest, a complete airing of the issues and the submission of new and completing plans. He's missed, for sure now, at least one Summer season I know of, and as of this writing I do not know his plans, intentions, those of others, nor his current health and status. Sad, weird story. 1945 to 2014, how strange is it to still have concentration camp experiences influencing present day activities?
I've always thought that there are so many dark secrets locked within the potential of each of  -  we either get them put of the way, ignore them deal with them, or crash-land. Much of it remains as taboos; one way or another, things we cannot do. Face it. We're totally constrained. We've had a Catholic President, and a black one. Next up is probably a woman president. At one point or another, each of those were big things, for whatever reason  -  people's heads, I suppose. It was simple to talk about that, mention each as specific issues, debate the items, talk about. But we've never had a Jewish President. Most near-recent one would have been Arthur Goldberg, back in the 1960's  -  NY political guy, eventually UN Ambassador  -  sort of a big power-broker in his own right. Back then. But he never moved really forward  -  he was a Jew, and everyone knew it, but no one could say it. It's very, very primitive. A Jew is a different story; sorry to stay. If I were to say to you that such and such was a person of a tribal, pagan cult, with beliefs in the powers of an unseen and mystifying, angry, nasty and powerful God, whose will must not be defied (and must be deified), who speaks through lightning and thunder, rules over the sky, rumbles deep space, descends upon  mountaintops, writes, dictates, and comments upon stone, burns but does not consume bushes, floods and kills at will, sends plagues, locusts, famines, tragedies and the like, seemingly at random, and whose name cannot be spoken but must be heeded, and, to boot, who has chosen  a select group, and that group only, for his own and his righteousness, at the expense of all others, etc., etc., you'd say that that person was a crazy person, a pure superstitionist, one not to be trusted. In addition, if for some reason I tried to explain to you that that person's beliefs, in spite of themselves, kept this person hard at work only to amass lucre, wealth, money, fame  -  all through means of falsity, misrepresentation, gossip, folly, slander and coarse manners  -  while this person's 'God' supposedly kept them above all that, you'd say that that person was insincere, a liar and duplicitous, all at the expense of others. Well, there you have it in a nutshell. A Jew. The superstitious, traditionalist, self-righteous, secretive Jew. Deal with it, live with it. No, not yet President (way too obvious) but everywhere else  -  finance, entertainment, banking, armaments, trading, money, federal reserve systems, etc. All hands on each lever, and manipulating, but just not at top, not the figurehead; leaving that supple maneuver to the stupid goy. I think that, in one way, that was what was shattered by Alan Cabal when he burst through the shield around Ed Siegel  -  the realization of which essentially just, on the spot, at the moment, destroyed him. So, OK, now we can argue all day, and you can hate me for bringing the proverbial cat out of the proverbial bag. Truth be told, no matter. You cannot deny any of this, or, anyway, I won't let you.
One of the total weirdnesses of this world is that  -  on the complete opposite extreme  -  we have all those Christian faiths with their own lock-hold on things - another form of 'secular' madness masquerading as deceitful control, prodding and lies. Their take on all this God stuff is, to flip the Jewish equation, is that somehow this disembodied God takes triplet form in the realization, after some destruction, of the mess his creations have made of things, and corporealizes once more in the guise of a human 'Son' of His own, a  savior who takes the human form, and then undergoes hazards, floggings, beatings and death by the very hand of those people and who then, after that death, arises from the dead again and Mankind is cleansed, clean, over, the slate is wiped. If you believe, and then  -    complicating matters   -  if you follow any of a thousand plus dictates about each little sub-prime aspect of Life itself. Compounding the Jewish defamation of being, this same defamation rotates and swirls over and upon itself to disguise millions of flaws and operational sleight-of-hands. Then they all go ahead, raw and raging, to scalp and maim and murder and kill each other over this  - you can pretty much get away with anything if you use the right words and formulas., It's all too easy. Wild-west medicine show patent medicine guy working out of a covered wagon to make the ladies swoon  -  I say. And then you get the even deeper aberrations  -  the 'voices' and the God-talk leading people on, pushing to do this or that, ascribing by fire the right ways of the world. I wanted no part of that, and every zany story I read of the past, all those saints and sufferers, just made me laugh. Theresa of Lascaux, Junipera Serra, popes and saints and misfits, every from Joan of Arc to Mother Theresa and Augustine of Hippo, every one of them as flawed as a mis-struck dime is flawed. Valued, obviously, but only because of the flaw. It's all really just too much for a regular mind, a regular person to handle, and no one needs to anyway. That's the objective basis of 'Freedom' and 'Choice'. Choosing not to.
I never wanted to live in a world run by superstition and fear. But, it seems I do and I must  -  power levers are in the hands of 'others'. Frightful and unseen others, just like their 'God' who rumbles thunder from behind the jealous bush. The only thing I've found myself able to say back to all this is : nothing.
I just move on. The ancient word 'Maya' describes it all best for me. 'Illusion'. That's the given  -  the real impetus is to find whether or not it's an illusion of any consequence. If it's not, just live through it and go on; you may as well remain invisible. If it is  -  or if you think or decide, anyway, that it is  -  that's when the heady problems come up. You then have to do something about yourself and about everything else, and get it started quickly and steadily. There's no slacking. That's what makes it all so crazy. That's what makes the things and the places  -  even those like 'Avenel' arise  -  someone's personal push for glory, for the scrutiny of others : wrecking woods and fields, planting small-scale, all-the-same houses, built cheaply and quickly and sold that way too. Streets named after children  -  Lisa Lane, Mark Place, Monica Court, Clark Place come to mind  -  things dumbed down so as to pleasant and cute and, if made quaint, only in the most ersatz and imitative fashion. I basically have always worked blindly, just pushing on. These others, however, I've noted, work by plan, one deliberate and crafty step at a time. Everything is orchestrated. The end-idea is to make money, whatever the cost. Nothing else matters  -  the quest for gain and profit and lucre takes precedence, takes over in fact, and carries with it, in lockstep, everything else. Everything can be sacrificed for that end. The larger the effort, the more corporate the effort, the fewer and fewer chances exist to convince someone of the errors of their ways  -  they're starry eyes and dumb and stupid, looking at figures, returns, amortizing this or that, cutting deals, figuring ways in and ways out, quickly and stealthily, so as to bring for themselves the most return for their own least effort  -  as if they'll live forever, take it with them, and have something that matters. Then  -  and only then  -  will they worship their G-d, while proclaiming that, all along, it had been their first concern anyway. It's all and everything a lie. There is no reality. It's all gibberish. In their endless confinement to a cosmic Timelessness, they end up, surprisingly and oddly, worshipping only the moment  -  which is constantly slipping away and never stops and thus is never really 'here' at all. It's all illusion, once again. Dumb bastards.
I used to like cars  -  even way back, when I was young, I'd look at them, learn the names, the forms, the engines, the way they worked, etc., and I'd watch too  -  who owned what, which person bought this or that, and try to find out why, or wonder why. Styling clues, sculptural clues, color clues, the push and the prod of design, the thrust of a fin or a rear-swoop, the barreling of headlamps, the bump of a grill. Everything, it seemed, was trying to say something : even with toasters and TV's, lamps and roller skates, bicycles and radios; everything portrayed something, was trying to get a point across, a point just slightly different and off-site from the 'use' of the same object  -  as if two voices were coming through everything. Had I been present, I figured, in the 1860's or whatever, I'd have had the same point of interest towards yoke collars, oxen plows, gate latches and lanterns and wagons and pails and shovels. Who knows? I certainly didn't. Other things had come along and completely taken people's minds off the essentials  -  sound had come in, emitting itself, or being emitted anyway, from those boxes and cabinets I was looking at; light and pictures came, same thing  -  from television sets. Planes and helicopters; bombs and bullets came from them. No one really 'made' anything anymore  -  which was immediately one distinction from the older days. I guess anyway. I don't really know who made shoes back in the 1400's, I guess people made them themselves? Or was a shoe-maker's guild already in control of that? No matter, the design concept is what I writing off, not the means of making it. I loved all that, and I questioned it all. And still do  -  for it seems to me basic and cosmic that we live with the shapes and forms that we do. It all has to come together and go right so as to unify the thinking by which we live. We have the concept 'streamlined'  -  no other reason except that we have it. By same, we then define the curve and the arc of anything made for motion, or in motion, or simulating motions, as 'streamlined' (which, in point of fact, once meant a lot more than it does now  -  streamlined is passe now, but once it was a cutting-edge parallel to the way mankind was about to be living). That idea, that 'concept' took precedence, defining itself and all other things by its meaning. A bullet, piercing the air, had to be streamlined. But, was a cannonball? Was that round, globular shape defining the same thing  -  without mankind's knowing it? How important was any of this? Where did 'art' enter  -  a Brancusi form, a gentle, un-gilded curve? What did that signify? I'd guess this form of thinking made me a bit more solitary than others. I'd sometimes find myself standing on a ball field somewhere, smelling the leather of the baseball glove on my hand, thinking about the cutting of those fingers and the webbing and the leather strap intertwined and closing on each of the four fingers off from the thumb  -  the feel, the passing, the lining, the label  -  lost in some crazy space between here and there, until the crack of a bat anyway would call me back in. What did others think about? I never knew, but I just went on, adequately covering my bases, and keeping my counsel. it was all a charade anyway  -  all that stupid banter and boyhood small-talk between bases and innings. I knew I really cared little for it. But I went along. Maybe, what else can one do at 10 years old or whatever? Cops and detectives, they pick up on clues and tics and evidences of things. They do that after training and after cop-school progress and education. I had that same observational context, early on, in everything I did, without being a cop or having a training. It was just how I lived, and how I learned to pick up on things, on the signals and things being sent my way by the world around me. I may have more than this wished to 'BE' on Mars or someplace else, but here I was  -  here, and stuck here, and thereby forced to continue my own experimentations and works.
All day long, even to this day, my head splits with quickly-passing ideas, phrases, words and concepts. If I don't just cease what I'm doing and jot them down  -  and I don't always  -  the gruesome truth is, ten minutes later, they're gone and most never recoverable. I try to associate the thought with something, as a memory aid, or recite it in some form of parody or rhyme, but I lose a lot, and it pains me. It's a bummer. I try and I try getting the idea back, re-creating the path of thought I was on, trying to reclaim the field, but cannot. I don't know what the word for this is, if there is on, but the very continuity of this page hinges on it, as early today I had some grand notion of how to extend this concept here, the episodes of this chapter, but they're gone. That can only show what a vast Whimper this entire idea of Life itself is  -  a thought, a passing puff of something, and then it too is gone. There's a certain flow that has to be maintained in order to make something like this work, and I have to stay hard at it doing its bidding, or lose it. When I was a kid I wasn't really aware, in these terms, of what loomed ahead of me  -  just instead I stayed watching. What's it called, I wonder too, when a person lives a life but stays out of it enough so that it both fails him later on and at the same time it allows him to hone and sharpen an incredible outsider status into a vast, long period of creative energy? And, between the two, which is worth more? I'll take the latter, thanks. And, anyway, I already did.
Even as I was growing up and seeing the other 'Dads' and 'Fathers' around me (that in itself was an important distinction), I never used the term Dad, always said 'Father' when relating to my own  -  as in 'my father says' or 'I have to call my father to pick me up.' Others in those sentences would have used 'dad'. I never did. There were distinctions between families, and I saw it much more in the fathers than in the mothers  -  the mothers always seemed more or less the same : clotheslines, washing, cleaning, dusting, having afternoon coffee so as to babble on with another other or whatever. Let's just say, on Inman Avenue Gloria Steinam and Betty Freidan were yet afar off.  Some of the mothers were, obviously, vastly better-sexed than others; in fact, even as a young boy I sensed one or two of the local mothers putting great, enormous, crazy streams of sexual energy everywhere, and probably having sex with a string of men and keeping it all steady and concealed, or just maybe dumping all of it on their own husbands, but I somehow doubted that. The Fathers were different  -  there seemed to be the 'Executive' sort of Father, and the 'Sporting' type  -  two different sorts. One was distant, removed, superior, pre-occupied. The other (sporting) were good old boys, throwing snowballs, playing ball, sitting on front stoops, monkeying around with the kids, remarking on things, getting sassy. One type was seen everywhere  -  Little League fields to backyard barbecues. The other type (Executive) never seen. Silly of me to make only two distinction like that, but that's it. I soon enough got out of all that anyway, since it didn't matter to me and none of those ideas stayed long with me. The seminary to which I was going had men being both Fathers and Mothers to teen-age boys  -  if you can imagine that, or a need or a reasoning for something like that. It was medieval right from the start, as if I'd gone from 1961 right back to 1451 in one fell swoop. All I needed was yoked oxen and grape fields on a hill somewhere. The weird thing about the seminary too  -  in light of the aforementioned guardianship and medieval atmospherics of it all  -  was that after all was said and done  -  all the rigor and routine and recitation and practice  -  a seminary kid could still steal off to the athletic section, where there was a gym and basketball courts, play fields, tennis, etc., and select from a bevy of vending machines any of the very normal shit one could want : M&M's, soda, pretzels, Mars bars, ice cream sandwiches, mints, gum, etc. It was pretty crazy, like light seeping in from somewhere else (or maybe it was darkness). And, in the most Portnoyish of behaviors, jerk off to any of the Sunday NYTimes Magazine underwear ads or models.
At the same time, you have to figure, we all have our own beginnings and our own references. Between the little triumvirate here I was writing of, myself, Al Cabal and Ed Siegel (we'll forget about Ruda), what really could there have been in common? Our life-stories were vastly different, so much so that it's a wonder we even understood each other's terms. What a weird confluence. Even weirder in thinking of little Ed Siegel, in some concentration camp somewhere, in the midst of a strange, downtrodden world of his own little-boy eyes, wondering and looking out to determine a world, to be seen in the mid 1990's having to face some sort of mental firing squad all over again by the likes of a crazy, urban, muddle-headed hipster intent on breaking down the world and coming through with some cheap, in-tune and parodyzing view of things, under the soft gauze of marijuana smoke, hemp, booze and beer. A hallucinogenic, all of that, all of its own. And for me, to think how did I get somehow in the middle of all that as well  -  coming from where and to what. I never even knew what hit me  -  was almost just reacting hard to stay atop the twirling barrel I was standing on.


 76. I never became an adult. I think that may have been one thing in my favor. A physical adult anyway. I was always a 'mental' adult. Physical adults have lawns and driveways, care about paint schemes and decorations and design. Worry about their foods and keep lists of restaurants where they've eaten. They have eaves and gutters and keep them free of leaves. They buy new clothes and watch their manners. They shovel walks and repair damages. Follow rules. Accumulate things and share in the popular assumptions of the day. That all keeps me out  -  by contrast my circle of being is the dark and the foul.
During the 1990's, maybe '94 or '95, I got involved with a weekly NYC publication called The New York Press  -  like an alternate, snarkier maybe, Village Voice. A fellow I met there, Alan Cabal, for a while became a regular pal, sidekick, whatever. It used to be said, back about 1965, by Honda motorcycles, in an ad campaign - 'you meet the nicest people on a Honda'. There way of showing that those new, small-displacement Japanese motorcycles were fun and happy  -  no brutes or riding-rapists nor outlaw bikers need apply. Alan Cabal was a guy from the Big Apple Circus  -  where he got his NYC start anyway. This was a much smaller scale, but still vital and strong, version of the traveling Ringling Brothers Circus which used to travel with the seasons from town to town back in the old days. Supplanted later by big arena and sports places, where they could encamp and perform indoors whenever they chose. The Big Apple Circus was a NYC institution; setting up on abandoned lots, waterfront acreage, uncared for parking lots  -  whatever large enough locations they could find. They plop down, erect a tent or two, or not, and charge for their performances  -  high-wire, a few lions and tigers, elephants, monkeys, clowns, flame-eaters and all that. regular circus stuff, traveling around all of New York Season in the good seasonal weather. year after year, their regularity became a feature, and it helped them grow and prosper. Last I knew, they'd been established in some Lincoln Center back-lots for long Summer-duration performances  -  but that too was, by now, years ago. Presently, I have no idea of their whereabouts though I know he's easy enough to find on the usual links and clicks. Alan Cabal came out of that  -  he may have been a clown or a hired hand, at first. But then he grew into a regular, stalwart; a traveler and part of the team. We'd gotten to know each other a little, over time, here and there  -  through NYC stuff, the newspaper, a few articles I'd written, a couple of notes. One day he contacted me  -  this was back in the heady heights of my motorcycle gang days  -  and asked if he could tool along with us, riding hither and yon, drinking and carousing, so that he could do a story on the Biker culture as he saw it, or experienced it. I said sure. I should have known. There's always more than what meets the eye. He smoked pot like most people drink water. On again and off again but always and whenever, and this particular day he'd been out in his mother's convertible K-Car, a bizarre, fake wood-grain side of a car that looked like a block, with a windshield sticking up. It was actually pretty funny  -  seeing a crazed young, dynamically bristling counter cultural hipster type tooling around in what was basically an aunt's car. His mother had died, and he got the car  -  his first set of honest-to-goodness wheels. Being a NYC guy, he kept it garaged elsewhere; somewhere in Jersey, Jersey City or something. He'd gotten it out for the weekend here, and brought along with him an equally strange, brazenly sexy, black-haired and black-featured Brooklyn babe  - tattoos, piercings, attitude, all that.  She was quite the site (I mean sight). In this real junker of a crazy car they arrived. Alan didn't really have a license  -  he showed us, pridefully, some weird sort of military ID from when he was in Kansas, for use on base. But, whatever. He didn't care, and certainly neither did I. His story was that he'd been some sort of oddball military police guy at Fort Leonard Wood and never really left base except to chase down AWOLs and such other runaways, petty crooks, sex thieves and things like that. He'd never had to do any real action or go overseas or anything, and he said the military-base boredom was what drove him to smoke almost lethal amounts of marijuana, pretty much government-supplied like any other contraband easily accessible on base  -  booze, porno, pot, dope, guns, whatever. Never no mind to him. He'd made mention, in fact, of how marijuana was pretty nearly almost a currency on base  -  one of the mainstays, that and wife-swapping. I guess it certainly paid off to stay stateside. As a 'currency' pot was used about and moved about like 'small change in a pinball arcade', just all over the place and once the habit had gotten him it never had left and now he just liked it and took it as natural, like water or breathing, and it took constant efforts on his part to stay high all the time and that was all he wanted  -  circus life, military life, regular life and the rest be damned. They'd taken the car out that day  -  the girl and him  -  to smoke with the top down all the time as they drove, see the Bikers, see the famed Jersey shore and its creepy attractions, get drunk and stay in one piece  -  all like that, together.  They figured they'd end up in the worst places and not really have much to do except groove on it all  -  nothing much to do with the ocean though they had already seen it. First thing was the Sandy Hook Lighthouse and the old officer's homes along the bay side of the post. It was a real hoot finding myself in some strange National Park Service setting  -   in an abandoned array of battery emplacements, bunkers, military bases and homes  -  with a renegade outsider high on pot. The modern day was a spinning wheel of its own, and right then it had come down out of the sky and landed right on me. Having been part of a traveling circus, and having done circus emplacements on the Coney Island beachfront  -  talk about weird and off-putting  -  none of this should have really meant anything to Alan by contrast; but it somehow did. There was a time, perhaps early on, perhaps right up to and through the First World War era, when the forts and emplacements at Sandy Hook were very important parts of the defense systems of the USA  -  the east coast, always vulnerable, the entries into NY Harbor, the sneaky German subs and all that. This place really did once scream with activity  -  maritime and military emplacements, ships, guns, cargo and tonnage  -  the waterway was vital. Since modernity arrived, it all had changed  - as had that grand. old ethos of the very way of life which went with all this  -  the slowness of time and rank, duty and protocol, the polite commands of officers and commanders who'd live and walk the waterside  -  bay on one side, ocean on the other, personifying the US of A. Parade grounds, bandshells, and  -  through there 1950's  -  NIKE missile emplacements, mechanized underground launchers, huge cave-like underground cuts leading to sub-surface ammunition batteries and storage units. This was one crazy place  -  even right then, with Alan, in its ruinous state (and his). There were old buildings, things marked with cornerstones of 1914 and 1912. There was a grave marker for dead and washed up revolutionary-era British soldiers who'd washed up, tried to survive, and whose dead and hidden bodies were only found later, and rightfully buried no matter the cause or the side. These are things we live with, and mostly today all that is unknown; and no one really cares anyway. Too bad. What can a person do? It's all like living in a ghost town where no information is passed unless money first changes hands  -  someone is paid to tell you about it all but only in the most approved fashion  -  bad information and propaganda for truth. Sandy Hook was actually Fort Hancock. yes, of course, there were endless jokes about the man's army and Fort HandCock and all that  -  but it couldn't work that way now. People never did realize (and Alan and his wonder-babe (I'll call Janine, another circus 'sword' swallower, I bet) and myself, we discussed these points in depth, as I introduced all this 'historical' perspective of my own on them), that there was a time, really was a time, when things were simple; when immediate points of view demanded a different intensity and length, when the actual defining description of Life and Land was different. This spit of sand we were on  -  maybe three miles long and a mile or so wide, I really didn't know  -  was once a vital connection to the land. People lived and died on these sands. The local Navesink Indians called it home  -  seasonal or not, but home. Everything was different. The entryway to the harbor was vital  -  ocean, land, roadway, river. The geography was local and real  -  people walked about,watched the horizon, looked for sailships and harbingers of arrival. It was like talking to a blind man  -  a stoned one. He said they'd been able to get into a few of the empty gun emplacements and of course all they did was fuck and he said it was a few times anyway, even if he was usually gay and sought out guys. She was pretty cool, and, he stated, she enjoyed a good slamming and they'd gotten high enough that nothing mattered anyway and it was all fun  -  she was just 'practicing' was how he'd put it. And to Alan anyway nothing ever much mattered. One time he told me how the true sign of a 'friend' was in how that purported 'friend' reacted when asked to 'go out back and have a smoke' and that's how he judged people  -  no matter what else the trust-factor of a good friendship or any friendship meant NOT saying no to such a request   -   however that did pretty much seal my fate with him as far as that went. Smoking pot was never my thing. I never did see him much for years after that  -  for the one time I did finally just say a simple 'no' to him was I suppose the one time he was standing judgment. Fact of the matter was that, after a time, I began to just find him annoying anyway and the less I was around him the better it was for me and my 'no' was more the result of simply not wishing his sole and undiluted company 'out back' for even a minute. He, of course. misconstrued it all as a refusal to smoke with him  -  which was a secondary matter to me for sure and, screw him anyway. What I did miss was his blazing, dark-featured Israeli beauty sidekick Oona or whatever her name was. She I could have smoked for sure  -  I was intrigued and exhilarated by her far-motive bearing, from somewhere else, some ancient, strange foreign dark land, as smoky and distant to me as that Latakia tobacco used to be  -  a pipe blend, that was. About him, on the other hand, I just didn't really care; he somehow bugged me and I had found a lot of his interests and phrasing annoying  -  never shutting his trap and just running on about things when fueled with alcohol and the rest. The sort of character who demanded singular, one-on-one attention with a flippant character-quality which drove me nuts and it became like 'why don't you just once shut the fuck up because I simply cannot any longer hear you.' And he was all fake and stupid anyway  -  all caught up in those stupid cultural things-of-the-moment stuff I hated. As it turned out, it all ran down anyway : even, eventually, Ruda or Oona or whatever she too started getting on my nerves  -  her manners nasty and cloying and I don't think she ever laughed or didn't take things dead, stark serious like some foul black existential huff, sucking on cigarettes and the rest  -  funny how grace and quality can disappear so quickly. Here it happened. Funny how it was all business and serious and dour, a sort-of excuse for otherwise doing nothing at all except what nothing wanted doing. The weirdest thing is that they ended up in a 'beachfront' sports bar in a certain hell-hole known as Keansburg, NJ (which has neither a beachfront nor a view, but is rather a blank spot on a really bad map that just looks out on a poor-man's waterway of the Raritan Bay. The low-income people there make do with it as their beachway. The only wave that place ever sees is when boats distant go by and people wave, or when fat people jump into the bay for a swim, and I'd bet the fat people do a lot more jumping in that the boats do passing by  -  the place is rank and foul and infantile and disgusting, yet there they stayed an entire afternoon and into the late evening, drinking and smoking and staying high around some gross outdoor cabana-type thing with big TV screens blaring and bunched of knot-faced and probably inebriated locals from the town staggered stupidly along and by and in : the bar itself I forget the name but it's still there and seems as foul as ever  -  nothing ever changes when it comes to these things. My biggest gripe was how someone would 'cover' something, say, like his 'weekend' in jersey, by doing it from the rank confines of a series of sleaze ball bars and encounters  -  all the while being high. No sense to me. I don't think either one of them has ever returned to follow up their coverage. Alan has just disappeared from my life  -  the article came out, it covered the things we, as bikers, had done with him and Oona or Ruda or whoever she was, portrayed me and us fairly enough, and seemed flip and hip about the NJ exploits, and was featured as first page, with an inside continuation. But, it all missed a lot too. He never was an insider. I guess my time with him was over by then  -  the Big Apple Circus, in those earlier days, was out on the old dunes and sand-holes at the bottom west-side of Manhattan  -  yes, hard to believe now  -  all that area having long ago disappeared. In the 70's it was a crumbling elevated highway, with old buildings and trucks stops and weigh-stations along the way; then in the 80's it was all falling apart and was dismantled and the area suddenly seemed to return to nothing : a wild-west of vacated old buildings, empty, sandy areas, and a long, open 'beachfront' where no one really went. By the late 80's it was a sunbathing and play-space for the locals, gays, yuppies and performers. The Hudson River went running by. Now, thirty years on again, it's all displaced by a thundering city  -  Battery Park City, million-dollar condos, restaurants, shops, schools, clubs and gyms. You'd never know it now, but it was once a desolate spot  -  and one, in fact, I loved. On those dunes the Big Apple Circus would set up, practice and play.
I can mostly keep my mind and stay civil, but there are things which set me off just now and then. I try to remain far enough off from things so as not to be packaged emotionally or set to explode. Don't get me wrong, situations drive me crazy, and often, but I do not register them to myself. I try to life at another realm, another level of 'things'  -  which is probably the worst word in the world but used here nonetheless.
I spent lots of time at the crumbling of those piers just mentioned  -  essentially it was where I lived, on foot or by bicycle, that entire first Winter  -  between things, but always returning. It's difficult for me now to try and recreate the ruination and decrepitude of what once was there  -  most especially now as how since it's all become fashionable and quaint  -  parkways, joggers, bicyclists, gar gymnasts with their weird clubs, stuff I just don't really understand, all done by people I understand less, and care to understand even less than that. Another world entirely has eclipsed any of that which I may have been or inhabited, and that's fine with me.  You can take your sensitivity stuff, your girl as boy and boy as girl crossovers and emotional bleeds, sob-story sentimentality, feeling for other and all that 'it takes a village' myopic bullshit and shove it. It's ruined a world already, and working on another, as soon as all today's nitwit kids grow up and get where they're (supposedly) going  -  eyefuls for brains, keyboards for teeth, and distraction as a nice, tight underwear beneath it all. You don't have to be an outlaw to be an outlaw, or, better put, you don't have to murder to be an outlaw, you can just be one by standing way off and watching and wondering about all the other puke you see. Some call it the shits of an old man, the foibles of passing on. That's fine. They can have it. What passes for the education of what they're now coming through with, alas, is the fault of these oldsters anyway  -  all that 'we pretend to teach, and they pretend to learn' dictum  -  meaningless, but true enough to be said, even if in some form of jest  -  by the self-satisfied and superior mouths of the minions who pretend to teach. In 1967, when I hit, the streets of NYC and these old dockworking piers  -  all of that stuff now of old calendars and sweet words about 'vanished' New York, all of that was run-away destroying itself and hated by the locals anyway; those doing it, the workers, the cops, the crime stoppers, the stevedores and longshoremen, the killers and thieves, the whores and bullwhip dick-lickers, transvestites and multi-sexual Martians. they were all there, and just laying about, doing their stuff, To call it back now, in retrospect, a 'golden age' of prime New York City is bizarre and unwonted. But, it's done. the waters were foul and stank. the sky was always a dismal scoff of brown or yellow; breathing was sometimes difficult, traffic was beastly, crowded, smoke and noisesome. So, that was it  -  think of a black and white movie of old, dark, smoky scenes, furtive glances and half-baked views and schemes. That will gets it to you.
I'm just getting going here, again, but it's necessary to point out the odd paradox that I'd constructed, or ran myself into anyway. I had somehow overlapped times  -  I had somehow let the switched allegiances of things reverse course with each other. it happens; it's easy to do, and to get all caught up in doing. One suddenly finds oneself in the midst of a crowd of people and operations that one has absolutely no confidence in nor commonality with, and all the while having a realization that these people are what they say in name only. they have no realization themselves that they do not represent what they think they do  -  and all their gibberish and mind-numbing undertakings are just sideshows and distractions. To keep them 'cool'. That's how it was, after not too long at all, with Alan Cabal and his Jew-gypsy friend. They were nuts, off the wall, Hedonists, in fact, and 'New York' in name only, by geography alone. Nothing else of them represented anything but the seepings and bleedthroughs of a miserable and foul modern day. I got out, and quickly.



75. Like the Copernican revolution, mankind itself will need to come to grips with itself not being the summit of creation : the center of the natural world. An optimistic, naive account of unlimited human potential based upon an ever-present and active God makes no sense, except as comfort food. And this view it pains me very much to have to proclaim and adopt. The best parts of me therefore fight it as theory, and seek proof of that activity, of a benign activity, stepping in, changing things as needed, interdicting, if you will, the stage of events through the mingling stronghold of a physical Deity. Which of course does not occur and for which the mind fights. Truly, there is little of logic here, nor within any of this quaint logic of thinking. My earliest days. in Avenel. had been placed in a location where no one thought thoughts such as that. It made me vulnerable, anxious and self-conscious. Part of the varied reasons, I am sure, why I got out, and so early on.
I was never able to properly separate what I was feeling from what I was living around myself. To me they always seemed as two, completely separate divergences  -  and my loyalty was not to the latter. Some will say that's a 'romantic' attraction to living, in the old vein of the grand Romantics of art, music, dance and writing. I wouldn't know any of that  -  as I see it those folks were all pretty one-dimensional in the way they thought of things  -  emotive, over-whelming, gung-ho. I'm not any of that  -  rather cold, removed, steely, aloof. So, that's another divergence I could never deal with  -  more to keep me apart, lone and solitary. I never understood, nor was I understood. Poor, poor pitiful me? No,  I don't think so. Poor, poor pitiful everybody else.
At 12th and 13th Streets, The New School  -  once 'The New School for Social Research', and, originally, in 1933, 'The University of Exiles', had a few buildings fronting the streets. Incongruously, in the 1960's and '70's, built in some 1940's style of a steel and glass modernity  -  faintly Bauhaus perhaps  -  but which never really fit the place nor made mark of what it was trying to do or say. Vietnam protest renegade and one time US Attorney General under Lyndon Johnson, Ramsey Clark, kept an office on the 2nd or 3rd floor there during the time he taught. The office, with its books and papers, could be seen up there, behind the window glass. I never went in, nor visited, but during that time (times I did gaze up so wistfully from the street below), about 1972, I was much in contact with, at Cornell University, in Ithaca, a Philippine leader-in-exile named Raul Manglapus. He was about  -  as I've previously treated  -  20 miles away from Elmira, at Cornell, when I was living in Elmira during those years. Between the three of us (myself, Manglapus, and Ramsey Clark), in those erratic, waning years of the stupid and pathetic Marcos dictatorship in the Philippines, we spent much time, by letter and phone mostly, planning or at least trying to 'figure' the means of overthrow and the toppling of Marcos and his replacement by Manglapus  -  who was at that time, having been exiled from the Philippines and picked up by Cornell for an exile-position as academic/university staff. He taught at Cornell. While he did so, he was a very active presence and spearheaded an exile government-in-waiting, and a rather strong subversive movement seeking to implement the overthrow of the Marcos regime  -  which regime was fully backed, secured, financed and bolstered in all effects by the US Government  - which Government wished to know no other manner nor means of governance for the Philippines, which it considered its own Christian, safe and secure foothold in South Asia against the onslaught of the sprawling communist tendrils fanning out from all those imagined and 'usual' suspect places  -  the Indonesian archipelago, the Soviet Union, and China too. This vast American underwriting became a joke, a parody of itself after a while, the fact being that it had all gone to their heads  -  Ferdinand and Imelda Marcos were in no way representative of any form of Christian or Democratic ideals. They were insane. Their country had become a military and civilian pressure-cooker, operated as a police-state, repressive, materialistic, vain and corrupt. Corrupt would need a capital letter here, for sure. The entire operation, for the US and its contractors, and the police state behind it, was a huge pudding of money and graft. it was unstoppable, all through those years of the 1970's. Manglapus, as well as Ramsey Clark, nonetheless discussed operational, legal and alternate methods of overthrowing the regime. It was a difficult time, and many letter-writings and conversations with Manglapus went back and forth, mostly declaiming the perverse power held by Marcos, and the position of the USA power structure vis a vis the governance of the Philippines, to wit: "The Marcos regime is seen as representative figures of American democracy in action, and the 'values' which go with it, against the encroachments in south and southeast Asia of both Soviet Russia and Communist China  -  huge, feuding and lumbering societies of filth and disgust thought somehow to be of 'superpower' status." I always thought, in those years, that 'possession of the bomb' was really the one criteria that the world went by  -  but now I'm not so sure. The bomb's still contentious, though it's no longer called that; but there are other things now  -  torture and terrorism, media control, imprisoning dissident voices, killing opponents, that's pretty much also an equal part of the equation. Back then I'm not sure what Marcos did. Anyway, no one ever killed Manglapus. There was a relative sense of values back then  -  all things could be moved against each other, deals made, and the mouthpieces and liars would come to the fore and make it sound as they wanted it to sound. It never really suffices to just say 'you had to be there'  -  but in this case it's perhaps useful and right. Today's world just doesn't translate this well. Raul was trying to run a 'government-in-exile' from Ithaca, he himself having been exiled (expelled) a few years before, by the Marcos regime whereupon, after some time in NYC, Cornell University gave him a slot  -  I think in the History Dept. as I recall. Considered a leftist, he was also considered back then (not later on) as inimical to US interests in that it was all theoretical (his exile-government-in-waiting), had no currency (?), [I never knew what they anted, perhaps the printing of Manglapus notes in various denominations?], economic base, nor persons nor factuality. Running a government-in-exile (Movement For a Free Philippines was, ostensibly, the name of the movement, not the government to be) made moreso by, as he put it, having to be wary of Marcos (or US) henchmen always out to get him. I can't right now exactly remember how I ran across him other than that I did respond by note to an op-ed of some sort he'd written for the NYTimes, an then he responded to that. Seeing as how Elmira neighbored Ithaca, and I often visited Cornell University, where he was, once it got started it became easy. So, anyway, that's my Raul Manglapus story  -  a diffident and oddly beautiful time for me, in my later formative years. I enjoyed the contact and the names.
Cornell University was a pretty cool place  -  lot of crags and rocks, gorges and drop-offs. Kids jumping to their deaths often enough  -  romantic problems, pregnancies, bad exams,  insecurities and the rest. Now they've netted a lot of the gorges  -  you jump, you just get stuck farther down in a netting, looking like a fucking idiot. That'll teach you. Last time I was there (Fall/Thanksgiving, 2011) some guy bumming money from me took me instead on a tour, by his account anyway, with full narration, of the new nets and safeguards, with a history of the community's problems over the issue, the huge sums of monies involved, and the reactions and proceedings of the University itself on the issue. I gave him a buck for his troubles, and he still wouldn't leave. All that he said was either in good faith and real stuff, or complete bunkum  -  and I wouldn't know the difference anyway. It worked for me. There's a coffee shop, and a Starbucks across the street, right there, and I took him in, we had a cup of coffee, and just talked  -  he was an apparently local, homeless wreck. The funny thing was, he wasn't alone  -  there was another street-waif, much like him, who came in because of his absence, and discussed their 'shifts'. He wasn't due to come on for another 45 minutes, and there wasn't anyone 'there'  -  because the guy was inside here with me, for a dollar. They were losing money on this deal  -  so I said adios and let those two shamans get on with their work. Work? Better than jumping, I suppose, the telling about it instead.
In antiquity, humans sent plagues into cities by catapulting corpses over fortified walls. Now we have more cunning Trojan horses. Smallpox has been stashed in blankets, disguising disease as gifts of goodwill. How perverse is that? Still, these are crude and primitive attempts to set back time and harm the curve.  Now we have corporate sabotage, world hypnosis and ecological sabotage to deal with  -  biological defilement of forests, lakes, rivers and stream, to name just one plausible option. In 1960, I don't think any of this was current in idea or importance  -  the arc of things was upward, on and through any and all obstacles. Hanging around the basement bar, a drink or two into conversation  -  about the new car at the GM plant in Linden, or the 707 coming through Newark Airport  -  a polite and nicely curved argument for progress as a desirable, feminine attribute  -  all curves and hips and cleavage. Something men fall for, and still do. Now, in those same places, the older, decrepit and completely re-populated neighborhood is run over by Pakistanis, people from India and Sri Lanka and Russia, satellite dishes on the roof (my parents' old house, where I grew up, had three at one count in about 2011). Why? What to watch and to whose benefit? How distracted and other-oriented does one need to be? The world now is a colossal 'One'. Is that any better? I see no difference, which is baffling to me  -  the America arc has achieved itself and run out nits own course, and by achieving itself it has, as well, decimated itself, killed itself off. You can't complain, for fear of being labeled something. It's impossible to single out the Jews who run the provocative, vulgar and gross multi-layers of 'entertainment'  -  those who've polluted and ruined everything, making irony out of, even, defecating. You're simply labeled 'anti-Semitic' and you're, for all practical purposes, done. You can't clamor over the hordes of illegal little Mexicans overrunning every restaurant kitchen and back-service area, every landscape and tree-cutting operation, hanging like monkeys off trucks, defoliating and cutting every tree and shrub in the name of 'Landscape'  -  for which idiot people dole out big money  -  to make things as bleak as some desert plateau. Our old, American culture and ethos, for whatever reason and whatever it was, is completely foreign to them, and has been. We've given it all away  -  the taproot of subservience and submission has been allowed to grow. I rather think we still send plaques into cities, though by different means and  -  certainly  -  different sorts of plaques.
When I got to New York City and ended up on 11th Street, that street was a completely different street than it is now, or than anything you'd find there now on either side of it. The main component of the street was what was then called Puerto Rican. Back in those days, there were but a few strong and identifiable groups to contend with  -  Negroes (blacks, mostly of American descent, meaning descendants originally 17th and 18th-century African slaves, the sorts over whom the Civil war had occurred, who eventually migrated north, and to Chicago as well, to become 'ordinary' by today's standards American blacks. They lived in Negro ghettos, the places like Harlem and other spots, close-by, in tight-knit cultural groups  -  mostly downtrodden poor, beleaguered and sour. But the word used was Negro); Puerto Ricans, often just called Spics, who  -  in much the same way as blacks, populated parts of New York City with their own brash versions of poverty, culture, food and romance. Apart and separate, but OK too. It seemed all else, Germans, Italians, Hungarians, Poles, and the rest, somehow simply fell under the rubric of 'White'  -  the engrained American type. American, red, what, and blue, and all the rest. The Jewish people, as now, kept themselves apart too, in their own places and ways.None of it made any sense. But, no matter, 11th street was totally 'Spic' territory. Into that, I moved  -  stairways of strange smells, people milling about, tight-fitting clothing, temptresses as sisters and girlfriends, an entire open and outdoor culture. One I'd not really seen before. It didn't bother or affect me. I took it all in stride  -  those first few weeks it seemed a zillion degrees, hot, hot Summer, people hanging out in an intense heat, almost half-clothed, kids screaming. The nearby schoolyard, empty then, as school was closed, by mid-September had become itself another roiling, crowded asphalt beach of period-timed groups of screaming, writhing kids. I never realized how often people propagated, though, judging from the looks of things, I should have known right off that sex had to be a mainstay of activity. Impulsive. Allowed. Cheap or free. And truly, within this culture then, without much in the way of 'responsibility.' You pick things up as you go along  -  and that's how it went for me; so that, before long, it all seemed quite natural, as if I'd lived among this my entire life. 11th Street itself had no panache at all, never had, except for Paradise Alley, adjacent to my building  -  which 'Alley' was legendary. Beatnik lore; stories of it abounded, references a'plenty in Beatnik memoirs and the lie. And there I was, right next to it, when it was all gone  -  a shitty hulk of itself, an empty passion of crumbling walls and some leftover brick, a motorcycle courtyard ravaged by punks and biker hoodlums. All the backstory was somehow gone. Funny how things like that happen. After a while, who knows what? No one knows but nothing. Just one over, 10th street, to the west, had been an artistic haven  -  all those 1940's people had painted and lived in their spaces and apartments, and made art galleries of the brownstone fronts and buildings  -  to the point where 10th street had become, for a while, its own little art district. Some of that still lingered, and I loved those old spaces  -  whitewashed walls, old steps and walkups, windows showing things  -  art and fixtures, bold and energetic references of things sculptural, strong and spiritual too. that world was gone away, over  -  as if all real Being and Presence had been drained, by 1966, from it and all that was left was some old ghost, lost amid a swirl of deals and money. Everyone by then was on the make. everything needed a name and a label, a perch upon which to be viewed. it had to 'be' something first, and then be 'owned' by someone 'special, second. Soon enough, the bastardization of labels like 'Pop' and 'Op' and 'Minimal' and then 'Conceptual', each one a term one more step way from the real and original idea of art, on a shape, maybe even framed, simply or not, and hanging on  a wall. Coy and ironic had to be the new watchwords. It was hurtful and false. I never went for it and I rued as well the day when places like Tenth Street began disappearing. Commercial districts and all the tarts involved in manipulating and people that milieu took over. The turds of Elaine's and Max's Kansas City and el Quixote had soon taken it all over  -  art as entertainment. Art as sex, and perversion. All a Queerdom of its own.



74. A few things always jumped out at me; deliberation was one of them. I used to look at those science photos that one would see back then and understand immediately the ploy underway. Anything appears odd or strange when seen in intense close up. It was really telling me, or anyone, nothing at all. It was a specious approach by Science, or whatever power was doing it, to baffle and amaze with a sort of majestic 'look at us' wonder. It's sort of the same thing that Authority has always done  -  ermine robes and tiaras and crowns and scepters, all of that which goes into the keeping of the dispossessed down, and in 'awe' of the magic of Authority. So much of everything starts from this. Bunkum everywhere. In my seminary years, far enough from Avenel so as to remain distinct to me, I can always remember that little chapel building : we'd assemble as a group, en masse, and enter at 6:30am, into a small, very plain and wooden chapel  -  sort of a connected bungalow style building, right into the freshman dorms at one end and the refectory, or eating hall, at the other. A few very basic attempts at stained glass windows, simple pews, views out to fields and trees. Some Winter mornings it would be downright freezing in there. But I remember things well : Chuck Waddell, that super serious and extremely pious boy from Delaware, always staying behind, always very hard at work, on his knees, at prayer  -  not just 'prayer' but the very singular prayer of his own extension all the while mouthing the words to himself, aloud but without sound. Always curious to me. What was this guy about? But even more than that I recall the very tall altar candles arrayed on each side of the otherwise plain altar (the entire thing had the character of some wood-lodge, summer-camp chapel actually). Each week a different seminarian would be selected to be the lighter, and the extinguisher, of these candles  -  which meant that a long-handled, gold metal implement made specifically for the long reach of church candles was used. It was a glorious thing :  walking in front of everyone before and after the mass, to light and then extinguish those tall and large candles in their stands. It was part of the mystique and mystery the entire operation somehow exuded. No wonder, perhaps, Chuck Waddell was always speechless and in awe. From Avenel to the seminary was a pretty simple reach  -  both places were somehow doing the same thing but in their own different ways. One's sacrament of wonder was the bulldozer and the crane; the other used candelabras and chapels.
It was always kind of funny for me to realize how it goes with the 'history' of places. Woodbridge and Avenel were peppered with these tiny ideas of itself as a 'place' that used to be  -  but only the small, historical types knew of it. Now it's different  -  there are markers and historic posts about this and that. People put a glide on things  -  pretending. None of it has any reality  -  they make up all these stories from the most basic rudiments. Parker Press. Valentine Brick. Bitting's Brewery. There are kernels of truth, only kernels, to all of this  -  but they erect stories and edifices. I didn't know what to do about it. I just watched. There was a woman around town named Ruth Wolk  -  an annoying smidgeon of a woman, proud of herself and proud of her search for 'history'  -  but it all had to be right, had to fit her design first, except for that it wasn't history. She wrote a few small, published, paper-back books with old photos and tales and stories of 'Woodbridge Township'  -  collections of old photos, small stories, tales and captions, and mostly ideas of the grand, older, days of a construct she named 'Woodbridge'. It was all of her own making  -  and she was a complicit in it as anyone else. She'd write of fine old, secluded homes, farmland and grassy lanes. She'd write of wells and water-sources, small knots of people organizing to do something authentic and real. yet, at the end of the same blurb, she'd boast of the now 'grand' Woodbridge, how it was turned into parking lots, shopping, roadways and large organizations of political and civic  -  and school  -  groups. her impetus and focus, as is most usual for these sorts of people, was on organized schooling : grandiosity over Boards of Education, new, grand schoolhouses and collectivized districts and regionalized high schools and all that. Everything headed in the complete other direction of the tiny porridge she'd just been brewing  -  seeking instead consolidation, hugeness, organization, a centralized, authority-down sequence of limit and control. I never figured any of that out, nor did I understand where all these people, with their bizarre attitudes and ideas, had come from : I knew the clutch of them., mostly  -  temple dwellers from the older, centralized yet small, Woodbridge. But they were just as intent on turning everything away, making it bad, tweaking it to their higher levels of regal and splendiferous (vain) authority and centralization. the world was turning and spinning fast  -  all things were being altered.
There were two churches, catholic ones anyway, in Avenel. When we first moved there, the original church building was on Avenel street. It was a pretty simple, small and ordinary church sort of brick structure; very nice actually. It faced the main street of the simple town; it was a 'satellite' parish or mission/outreach of Woodbridge's St. James Church  -  an outpost for the burgeoning population of the developing swamplands which were Avenel. In about three years the parish had outgrown its church, and a larger, more modern 'church-by-churchbook design book' structure was in place, destroying the woods behind the older church which still stood and was left standing for some 8 or so years  -  used as a gym, social center for kids, basketball hall, etc. A total mish-mash. Boy Scout meetings in the basement, once a 'catholic' troop 73 had been established to debunk the nearby Presbyterian troop 42, of longer-standing, and more manly, proportions (tougher kids). It wasn't really as if, in Boston or somewhere like that, the lines separating the religious parts of town meant anything. They meant nothing at all  -  it was mostly in the addled brains of parents and/or old-timers from other places; people who kept such scores, who marked these things down. All of us kids, we'd run together no matter who or what  -  most of it could be described as dastardly stuff anyway so what matter is it in a religious context anyway. Breaking into the here or there abandoned house, wrecking what we saw, destroying plates and dishes, flinging old 78's (hard, black, thick plastic that smashed like glass) into trees and walls, entering the rears of the varied junkyards just to outwit the mad, junkyard dogs and destroy windshields, smash lights, wreck otherwise already wrecked cars. We'd smash windows where we could, slingshot rocks and pebbles into things, use various firecrackers and other small means of explosive, as kids are wont to do, I guess, to blow things up, main or slaughter small animals, running through the woods with bows and arrows set for squirrels, birds, or any other small ground animal  - whish as far as out kid-frenzy went, should be 'ground-up' animals anyway. It was crazy. It was bizarre and wrong, and sad too  -  as I think of it now I still shudder. What we were thinking, I'll never know. It certainly bore no semblance of either side of the stupid 'religious' divide which had been presented to us. Protestant dances, and Catholic dances. Protestant Boy Scouts and Catholic Boy Scouts. I mean, and still do, what the fuck? Whose strangely altered and medievalized thinking goes like that? You read of these sorts of things in the year 1410 or something, but this was 1950's Avenel, a shit-hole suburban, low-priced, swamp-infested  construction project in which people were supposed to live  -  living new lives, highly-stylized new lives, in fact, of ease and splendor, of toothpaste in tubes and butter in tubs, lightly whipped.
I never really wavered from my tasks. I would read the get-your-hands black (back then the ink used to rub off) 1960's, thin-columned, endlessly wordy New York Times, nightly. Spread out on my hard-tiled floor in my room upstairs, I'd read page after page items about far-off places, the mechanizations of men, Congo, Asia, China, Soviets, space-competitions, Nazi-history investigations, auto-industry items. Until late at night  -  oftentimes my wearied mother would climb the stairs, knock and open the door, and quizzically look at what I was doing, reading on the floor some stupidity like a scribe, shake her head, and tell me it was late and that I should get to sleep. There was an endless war or skirmish always underway somewhere  -  Brazzaville, all of Africa, Congo, Swaziland, Taiwan vs. mainland China, Appalachian poverty and problems right at home in the USA, civil rights troubles, school desegregation, slums, urban renewal, everything all a -twirl at the same moment. Something big was brewing; I could feel it, I could already understand it, but just wasn't sure of the approach. Life. death. Little mattered. Occasionally things would pop up; my own ideas and interpretations : 'desegregation'  -  using such a word, I felt, was wrong  -  it somehow made valid the existence of 'segregation', assuming all one had to do was correct it, as without changing it or re-formulating first the dumb way people thought. Thinking about what I read of those weird, odd southerners and all their 'separate' Woolworth's food counters, restaurants and bathrooms and water fountains, I would just think  -  what's wrong with these asshole people? How stupid could a people be? What race of Neanderthals had they themselves descended from that they could still subsist in this manner  -  their screaming diatribes, shouting at schoolbuses and children, protecting their own supposed 'rights' (which did not really exist anyway). These were supposed adults  -  grown and mature people who were assumed ready to lead others. They turned out to all be liars and jerks. I found that money and corruption left its presence everywhere. African-bound cargoes of foods and medicines, large sums of monies, all stolen, swept away by corrupt leaders of corrupt governments run my small mobs of corrupt people. Theft and malfeasance were everywhere. The dead and the dying loomed as a result. War was nothing. War had just become a cover, an excuse for cover  -  to cover and obscure the thievery and corruption wherever it could be concealed. Nothing was straight, people were crooked bastards, mostly moreso the nearer to the top one got  -  this went for the USA too; no distinctions made.
When you're 12 years old I don't think you're supposed to have already reached the point of saying 'Oh, what the hell...' It seems way to early to find futility and the grassy island of doubt so soon and already sidelining you. It's a tough thing to get over : it affects how you can talk and honor and respond to things. I had to carry that around. Boyhood fades; the world intrudes. How was I supposed to observe or see or watch things in that condition? The stupidity of a symbolic thing, like the CBS Eye, as a for instance  -  something everyone else accepted and looked for. This little place I was in  -  a thin strip of street not even a commercial street any longer  -  barren, derelict, cut in two by roadways, a lumber yard, a train station seemingly now an afterthought (everyone had their flashy cars to ride in instead), two or three 'candy' stores, selling nothing more than leftover pennypacks  -  it was really a non-entity, a no-connected nowheresville. I was ready to cash out. Had I been 4 years older, I would have just jumped a train (not 'in front of', just jumped on), or hitch-hiked Route One and disappeared. As it were I worked hard on finding other ways to get out. Hello Blackwood, I suppose.
I've found most of life to be a symbolic reality  -  people placing space and the things they do into mental landscapes which  -  while not real at all  -  reach the level of 'real' by fulfilling symbolic needs. This can be argued all day  -  and I'd probably be the first to do it  -  but I am certain I could argue it to a perfect clarity and win. As I was growing up, the street I lived on had, as well and for itself, attained that level of being  -  it was a line of houses to which was attached a serial decision-making for the placement of like and symbolic items by each family, random or not, along the way. A sameness in cars : boats, pools, lawns, driveways, furniture, decks and patios (New Jersey patios, I always thought, bring a certain 'patois'). Symbolic preferences for lives not really lived; references too, I suppose. Nothing on Inman Avenue bore any real substance, it all seemed image and symbol. The time of being  -  the 1950's, the 1960's  -  were in fact completely artificial and symbolic anyway : everything managed to be, to exist, from nothing and completely artificial and meaningless. Yes, that still goes on today, of course, but all things are different and done differently. The essential basis 'within a reality of' its own' Earthness and substance (that thing we, back then, were just leaving) is all gone - everything is ephemeral and virtual and ethereal, and yet today's 'folk' can make no distinction on that level at all. They just live it. Art and re-purposing buildings in a world that has so little to say but so many ways of saying it  -  (nothing). So many people live amidst a symbolic reality of their own into which and through which function very well and feel quite satisfied, though without knowing. Quite discursive, no matter.
In looking back it's a little bit amazing to see how much of all my father/grandfather stuff, in a vaguely humorous way, has to do really with the vagaries of Robert Moses : grand enforcer and builder of highways, bridges and tunnels. My Aunt Mae told me she remembers  -  as a young girl  -  a burial of her father (that absent 'grandfather' of mine at 116th street) - one Giuseppe Entrona  -  was at ground level and next to a busy highway. years now have elapsed (1945 or so) and somewhere over that time the Brooklyn-Queens Expressway has been rebuilt, enlarged and elevated, high over this particular cemetery segment. The roadway once at ground level is now high in the sky. The trestles are above now the whines of the highway and the groans of the junkyards and scrapheaps below. The actual grave is now a mere smidge along the cramped, brick footing of the overpasses, a sort of center-alley walkway of dark, looming brick. It's all a very strange place, yet blighted and boring in its way too. In my mind I go back there, only in memory, trying to recall the old scenes gone by  -  perhaps when there were trees and shrubbery (there are none now, on this flat, treeless, ugly plain). Do dreams have memories too, or do memories dream? Whatever it is, this vague portion of the 'Introne' interdict lies here, still and rank, beneath a highway and lost in a place once bucolic and serene but now ravaged by the tempests of time and value and violence and ruin. Robert Moses be damned. Giuseppe Entrona too. Whatever any of it all is, it is for certain that nothing now exists at ground level and  -  yes  -  all things are elevated.
In my 1950's there was pretty much nothing. I was not so much held back by my inadequacies as just kept in place to the fullness of the little I had.  My father went through any number of automobiles, swapped engines, did brakes, etc., when he had to  -   he had rental car replacements for mechanic-repairs (I remember well an quaint old '53 Dodge he had for a week or two  -  faded green, ram's head in metal and chrome, soiled on the hood. It shook tremendously as it neared 50 mph, and all that was accepted  -  this great little clunk of a tough vehicle, hunkering down the slower highways and byways of that time. it was fun, and a good memory). My father had erected an engine hoist in the rear yard, at the end of the driveway  -  a few times entire engines were just switched, as a Saturday and a Sunday's task. Wonderment and awe sometimes, by me as I watched him at work. I don't know what people do now, but I know they don't do that. The modern day, by contrast, is a brittle and bright mirror  - composed of the reflection it is supposed to be reflecting. They call it, perhaps, ethereal, virtual, unreal. Maybe that's the case, and they can have it. If so, I want nothing of it. Quiet has to bespeak quiet; it needs a strength and a presence of its own. The 'life-as-a-pale-reflection-of-God' thing works far better than today's mastiff-mankind, king of all matter rap. Anyway, in today's world that's the entire white left speaking, and nothing else. No one knows; they just blather on. Mostly evil and cheesy (though one cannot say that), and mostly for money. Lucre is King. God and Mammon  -  are the same thing. The whole guilt and soft-doubt, whole-foods, artisan and craft debauchery are where modern anti-culture has amassed its goods. We now have to listen to the paradoxical dichotomy of a reasoned, half-crazy mind, of whatever nationality and color all melded, using patience, sentiment and logic to forestall any creative progress, make it stop or put it on hold anyway, while violence and vulgarity make sport of the entire mad, insane nuthouse  -  a governmental, medical and military and religious complex raring more and more to be on its way. Trying to thwart now a thundering global collapse of its own house of cards. A House of Panic instead. It seems now that people can only seek 'product', as it's now called, and their 'product' is a weird combination of waste and war unleashed, speed and restlessness, anger, sex, and mayhem. But that apparently now satisfies the world. This world is but a shadow, come to hide and conceal all other things  -  the nervous restlessness has no one settling in place, just constantly moving along some media-boosted continuum. It's so far unlike the 'old' days that I'm here writing of as to be insipid and sad at the same time, as if the shirt had no collar and no sleeves but was still to be called a 'shirt'. You'd better look up Confucius on that one; see his 'Rectification of Names' theory. If you call something, in error, that which it no longer is, you will, at the least, lose harmony. At worse, you will die.
Other cards are being drawn; the hands are held. In this moment, the cards and hands are being arranged on a table-top, whence all will see them  -  before the real fire of their burning begins. It cannot be held back. It is harsh and impossible to forestall. And if it was anyway, they would have that person's head. Whoever it was who was stopping it. Anti-Christ, Mammon, or ritualized 'God'; all the same. Sometimes Satan comes in the name of the Lord.

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